It *may* Be Possible. Any Suggestions?

I've been married for 25 years and as far as I know, I'm the only one my wife has had sex with. Now, of course there is always the possibility of my being wrong in thinking that, but i'm about 85% sure of it. That being said, I've always thought it would be fun to to see my wife get it from someone else, particularly if she is enjoying it. Now, I'm not totally against getting something different myself, but I'm not so much concerned with that as I am with seeing her have a really, really good time.

Some background on her. She comes from having some pretty traditional values, but she enjoys sex. She could suck a man dry in no time and really likes to ****. Over the years during sex, I would interject some verbal fantasies into the act during sex.  Testing the waters in such a way that I could say, "Eh, it was just fantasy, not real life" if anything I said were to have a negative result.  So far, that hasn't been the case. She has even said when asked what her naughtiest fantasy was that it would be so blow someone while getting it from behind. However, she has never indicated to me at any point that she would be willing to go through with it. I've made no attempt to hide the fact that I would let her.

Now, as a late she has made mention during causal conversation that we are "in a rut". There is no arguments or discourse of any kind and I'm not sure exactly what she is getting at given that the term is a rather ambiguous one.

We don't socialize much at all, so it's not like I have anyone in mind or even anyone available for such an encounter, and it would probably be a more comfortable situation if it involved another couple rather than just another male.

Any suggestions as to how to proceed with the idea? I thought about getting her a toy that she could use to at least simulate having two as a start, but she likes the real thing as opposed to plastic ones.





OldBoner OldBoner
3 Responses Feb 16, 2009

Has she really given sex toys a chance when trying to enhance the sexual experience? There are so many types of accesories available for her to enjoy. Maybe if you gave her a catalog to look thru, you could stimulate(stir) some interest?<br />
Just a thought - best wishes and satisfy her need.

find a local swing party. sugest to her that you two go and check it out and see if that lifestile will suit you. they are usualy safe and you have couples to work with. this way you can get to know th couple. but start slow.

Just come out and suggest it when she says rut again. Use the web to find like minded people.