I Crave This! All The Darn Time!

In my last story on hubs and my D/s times I told how we hold DoSo or Days of Silent observation.  This is where we both remain silent all day long and talk to each other thru gestures and expressions....I sometimes struggle with being quiet all darn day.....But this past Sunday we held another version of DoSo that works way better for me...This time we did just partial silence.  Hubs was silent and I was free to  be my usual chatterbox self!  That ROCKS for me!!

I LOVE this cause it means I have to pay very close attention to his every move all day long!!  This is NEVER a problem for me. It happens to be one of my very most favorite things to do!!

We are not a M/s couple but we do love to sometimes play around with role playing me being his slave. I love this too and actually crave days where I do nothing but coddle and cater to his every need or whim.  So while he was being all silent on Sunday, I was his lil slave-girl......  Just thinking about this can all but send me into an ******.  I know a lot of folks reading can't relate to feeling this way but those who are into D/s  will more then likely totally understand this intense need.

I cooked all his favorite food and then fed him by hand.  I did every sexual goodie  he especially loves.  I watched his every move and picked up on every silent message he sent me.  I bathed and massaged every inch of him.
I danced his favorite dances and said every naughty thing he loves to hear. I did all the special little things that he so loves like for instance, after we are both exhausted from having total monkey sex a bunch of times he loves to drift off to sleep with me gently stroking his belly, penis and balls....No pressure or excitement producing moves just that gentle stroking.  He zonks right out with  the sweetest smile on his face and that just makes my heart swell right up the the very best sort of happiness... We BOTH totally eat this sort of stuff right up!!  I'm all excited just remembering it!!

What we never get into is his  ever hurting or degrading me. It's fine for those who enjoy that stuff but we are both all into what leaves us feeling better and more loved.  Sunday's fun left us BOTH feeling that way and it sooooo ROCKED!

I so crave times like this.....It is better then eating chocolate!!



K is always so sweet about posting beautiful songs for me so I figured I'd leave him a couple right in here this morning....

I love thins one!  Love that intensity in Beyonce's eyes...That girl can move too! 


This is another one that just says it all for me.......


sierra33 sierra33
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I love the DoSo idea! :)
Actions are louder than words anyhoo!

Thanks lohla...Yup, they sure do!!

Thank you for sharing a lovely day with us.

aww thanks john!! :)

Sound like you two have a lot of fun :)

I love to see love in action too Sie . . . and I have to say you two are the most action packed lovers I have ever known . . . hahahahaha . . . thank you for sharing it with us . . . it's such a beautiful thing . . . and the ideas and inspirations are helpful too . . . ;) . . . thanx guys . . . love you's . . . 8D

Aww thanks mm.....We have our quiet times too but I just never write about them!! :D I should....but it would put everyone to sleep!!
Love you too! ♥

I do not consider myself submissive but I can very well relate to the love you share. You offer such a candid and sincere peek into your life with your adoring husband it is easy to see the fine level of compatibility you share. :~) I find your write ups are some of the most enjoyable I have encountered.

Aww thanks Jessy....I'm glad that not being in the life style you still see it as good. I always love it when folks can come from different angles and still understand each other.... :)

i always like reading about you and k times. you are very good play slav for him. i think you like to be happy and talk a lot. i would like to talk with you. i do not talk a lot it is nice when meet someone who knows what to say. did k fly you to snow trip? Master like to talk to k about the air plane and i see picture he sends of it. i would be too afraid to fly plan i do not even yet drivecar.

Aww thanks nikigirl....I'd like talking to you too. No K and I drove up to the Mountains. He wanted to haul the snowmobile machines up behind us. We've had a couple of light winters in a row and haven't used them much. I saw the pic your Master sent K of his birdie too! How cool they both share this hobby!! Maybe you will learn to drive now if you ever want too! It's pretty easy once you get the basics down.... I don't see me ever being a pilot either......I do better in the other seat! :D

This gives me hope at least...that the things I think can be...can..*SIGH* thanks for sharing ...I do enjoy your syories!

Aww thanks ...Never give up hope. Sometimes the most awesome things and people come at you when you least expect it..hugs....

Sie--
I was hoping our past weekend would inspire another story. ;-)

I'll get to that as soon as work slows down!! I have been busier then all get out this morning but I will write something maybe later or tomorrow..... Our weekend was TOTALLY inspiring and FUNNN...I kept right up with you goin down the rough hill too!! Yayyy me!!

Sie, I just can't see you as the silent type at all.......I bet you're like a lil girl explosion waiting to happen, all those sweet words bustin out....giggles

I can TOTALLY see you as hubs lil slave girl though !! Sierra Slave Girl Princess.....Has a ring to it don't ya think ? heehee

Yeahhhhhhh I like the sound of that!! :D I'm not silent...that is for sure.... What doesn't explode outta me in big bursts..... sorta leaks out all the rest of the time!! :O

haha....I luv it ! ;p

cc,what say you scratch the dance classes and run lessons on shyt like this. teach them to wait on partners hand and foot. i can act as quality control. you send them to me and i decide if they cat it before they get graduated. sounds good right? :0]
k's a lucky bastid!
whats up with the eye patch and boots he mentioned?

Awww..you are so generous for making that offer!! :D That cracked me right up!
I was goofing on K all day about Doming him and all I got for my effort was tickled till I said crazy stuff he wanted me to say to make him stop, so that night I figured I'd step up my approach! I asked him to grab the garbage but he just blew me off and said he'd get it later so I put on an eye patch from his pirate Halloween costume. Threw on my thigh-highs grabbed one of his whips and tried to motivate him thru sheer domination...... He totally bowed down and grabbed the bag and tied it up and then he grabbed me around the knees and threw me over his shoulder and said, "I can't be without you Mistress" started laughing his fool butt off and proceeded to drag me out the garage way, while he took out that garbage. It was only about 10 degrees and I was butt naked except for the boots and eye patch.... He was too but that man could sit in a snowbank for an hour and not freeze...I swear..... He walked slow too...and was talkin about how "refreshing" the winter air was. I was a chattering mess of goosebumps when we got back inside....He was still laughing..... I'm now officially retired from trying to Dom him...Life is lots warmer as a subby-girl!! :D I will say he warmed me right up once we got back inside tho.....I gave him a bunch of points for that!!
Such is life at the crazy house!! :O

i hope he used the good shoulder for that lift and not the one giving him grief.
i was generous in making that offer baby girl. u kno me always tru blu. ;0]

He totally threw me over his Un-Wonky shoulder!! He is being really careful and smart with the bad one now....I am soooo relieved about that too... You are TOTALLY a true blue kinda girl!! ♥

Sie--
My love--
I simply could not stand to be parted from you. ;-)
Thank you kindly for the points!

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I'll just repeat what I've said before: your husband married a really great lady.

Aww thanks Stoner.... hugs for always saying that too!! ♥ :)

Sie--
Your attempt at domination--
yesterday afternoon--
was most admirable!
I do feel the eye patch you wore last evening was a bit much--
but it was nicely off set with the black boots-- =D
My intention yesterday--
was not so much to--
tickle you--
but more an examination--
of your lovely torso for--
structural integrity.
I found the results highly satisfactory! ;-)

You crack me right up.....but I can't decide which put me in a fit of giggles first.....Your remark about the eye patch....*I was just trying to motivate you to take out the garbage......* :D

Or the bs about my ribs havin structural integrity!! I need to go put on my boots again if your bs gets too deep!!! You are such a total hoot some days.... :D

I was indeed examining your torso.
I simply did not state for what purpose--
I needed to confirm--
the structural integrity. ;-)

Sie--
Thank you--my love.
I enjoyed each song.
Especially the second-- ;-)

I wanted to touch upon some key points yesterday--
but alas my time ran short--

The first being--
our not engaging in--
humiliation--
degradation--
or punishments--
less they be used in a playful theme--
that we both enjoy.
If I were to find myself holding sadistic desires towards my wife--
I would view them as dysfunctional--
and a sign of a deeper issue that would warrant psychological attentions.
To elect to bring harm--
be it mentally or physically--
to one I cherish--
would be very troubling to me--
indeed.
For her to seek pain in either way--
would be equally worrisome--
to me.
Regarding punishments--
I have far more pressing things to plan then how to punish my lovely wife.
I would far rather plan a pleasant excursion or event!
I leave others to live and behave as they deem fit.
These thoughts only reflect my own stand--
as regards my own nature.


I have long stated--
that I do not always support the notion of our being a--
D/s couple.
or perhaps not--
the seemingly--
standard issue--
D/s as popularly defined--
by current trends.
I have always been the Dominant factor and chief force in my own life.
I feel all are--
Whether one accepts that fact--
or not.
Our own choices govern our outcomes.
I must say that Sie follows my lead--
only--
because she views it as the correct one.
If she did not--
she would not hesitate to firmly dispute my judgment--
She has done this any number of times.
She has led me to become very adept--
within the art of--
compromise. =D
I would have it no other way.
I greatly admire her tenacious ways!
My wife holds boundless warmth--
countless endearing qualities--
She is a vision of beauty and a sensual wonderland--
She is also a force to contend with--
should circumstances warrant it.
She is my equal--
If she deemed my actions unacceptable--
no specially selected word would be required--
Her--
no--
would echo--
with resounding strength--
determination--
and dare I say--
volume!
She is delightful--
in every way.

She may well crave--
to act the submissive--
with myself alone--
but make no mistake--
She has a highly Dominant spirit--

Oh Jeeez...I read this and got laughin soooo hard. Hubs is tryin his best to make me sound like one kick azz sorta girl! So I just saw him walking around out on the floor of his place and I go over and say to him...*real quietly* "Imma Dom you today my lil **** *****....." He gives me one of "those looks" and says, "You don't say" Then BAM he's got me and tickles me, right then and there, till I say whatever crazy thing he tells me I have to say to get him to stop.... :D Oh Yeah....I'm a real force to be reckoned with!!!!

When I do get honestly mad tho I am the exact opposite of him. He lowers his voice to make folks pay attention...and it does work really well... I get loud! I don't scream or shriek but I totally turn up the volume. Sometimes he swears he gives in and makes peace with me just cause I can totally give him a headache!!
My volume is TOTALLY my secret weapon!! ;)

Most of the time we just talk stuff out and never let it build to the point where we are really mad at each other and he totally knows if he can get me laughing I get over being mad in a flash.....He loves that whole tickle routine as much if not more then snapping me with a wet towel! I'm still sitting here giggling like crazy!!
Me and my well tickled, dominant spirit!!! :D

K, I loved your comment here too...You TOTALLY ROCK....*my subby-ninja!* :D

Wonderful story and BTW Beyonce not only has the moves but the stuff that looks so good doing the moves.

Aww thanks tommy! Beyonce is a TOTALLY hot girl!! I have always loved the way she looks and sounds. She is totally adorable in all the interviews I've seen her in too! She seems like a real sweet person....

You two have the most unique relationship I have ever seen. I love the dynamics involved, and neither of you ever seem to get bored...you just keep the ideas and games rolling. You keep us all waiting for the next story...

Aww thanks moon....We honestly do work at keeping things fun too. I think a lot of it has to do with seeing so many of our friends get bored in their relationships. It makes us want to try doubly hard not to get to the point where we stop communicating or having fun and making each other feel loved and happy.

I also think a lot of it is that we don't have to spend so much time raising kids. I have sooo much admiration for good parents.....cause raising little ones is a HUGE job!!! We get to baby the heck out of each other instead!! :)

This was great to story Sie. I love hearing about your Sunday's with Hubs. I'm all for the partial DoSo. I talk a lot too.

Aww thanks Dee.....You'd love this then!! Ya get to babble away non stop! This is soooo much easier for me then keepin my lil trap shut all day!! :D

M'mmmmm sounds like a wonderful day of 'fun' had by both of you. *smiles*

thanks and hugs gf... :)

Sie--
Sunday was truly--
exquisite!
I do most definitely--
relish the moments--
I am afforded the luxury of simply--
basking in your rapt attentions.
I doubt any man would refuse those.
I do want to make clear--
that I would --
and have--
gladly showered you with these same offerings--
Yet you always prefer acting as the provider.
Who am I to deny you such joy? ;-)
I so enjoy these times.
I so enjoyed reading you delightful retelling.
Thank you--my dearest love.
You make every aspect of my life--
profoundly richer--
and utterly sublime!

I would like to take one moment--
to address a question asked of me in a private missive.
The individual was curious--
as to why I do not refer to Sie--
with any of the more common endearments.
In our reality--
offline--
I occasionally do--
call her--
babe--
darling--
or--
my sweet.
Calling her--my love.
happened quite naturally--
well before we were an actual couple.
Even then--
I recognized her as--my love
so she has remained all these wonderful years.
She quite honestly is--
my love.

Awww thanks K....You have TOTALLY done the same and offered to do it tons of times. I do like it here and there but I would rather be the giver 99% of the time. It just makes me feel "right"
Thanks for letting me have my joy!!!! That cracked me right up..... You are SOOOO generous!! It sounds funny as all get out to say ....but it really is true!!

Folks have asked me a bunch of times too why I always call you rough guy instead of honey or baby or whatever and I always tell them I do call you other cutsey names in real time but mostly I like rough guy. I called you that almost the first day I met you too!! It TOTALLY stuck!! I LOVE it when you call me "my love" makes my heart melt right down like a hunk of chocolate beside a bonfire!!

When I was first taking classes with hubs everybody else called him Master K and did their lil bow or Sensei and I started callin him Master rough guy right off....It made him sort of smile and never once did he tell me to stop calling him that so I just kept it up to make his eyes get all smiley when he looked at me!! I totally worked all the angles with him....and he TOTALLY let me too!!! :D

I have also been known to call K....Ninjapooh and sugglyugummmzzz.....but we won't go into that cause it might embarrass him!! He cracks right up at some of the goofy names I come up with!!

snugglyugummmmmz??? Now that is one story you have got to share lol

:D..He'll totally start twanging my lil butt with the wet towel if I start going on about all the goofy stuff I call him......So I might just write about it someday!! :D I can be such a rebel sometimes!! :D

I'm with Jacee... Pretty please K... Lol. Let Sie share.

I second that Dee and Jace!

See it's unanimous......he HAS GOT TO allow you to tell the story without snapping your behind with a wet towel lol

I just told him about this and he cracked right up and told me to "go for it" :D He really does have the cutest sense oh humor!! :D

Yayyyyy can't wait to read the story!!

I'm excited too!

I am known to call him Snugglyugumzzz at around 5 in the morning when I have been outside with the dogs in the middle of winter and I come in and jump into bed beside him and stick my cold hands right in his toasty armpits. I have made that man jump a foot in the air a few times!! But then I get busy and do things to heat him right back up again!! :D

Indeed Sie has done this a number of times--
She has even been so bold as to call my name--
Then--
when I sat up--
she then pelted my nude chest with a snowball--
She is--
however--
always most thoughtful--
in assisting me to regain my warmth once more. =D
She is a handful some days! ;-)
However--
I do so enjoy it all!

Lmao........that is priceless!!! I can just imagine the gleam in her eyes before she awakens you with nice icy hands lol

You both are such a joy to read. I know life is never boring for either of you

Thank you kindly jacee1960.
Sie does rather enjoy an occasional abrupt awakening for me.
I must endure them--
to gain all the other joys. =D

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Great read Sie. I am in agreement with the degrading stuff. I don't get into the ***** or **** talk. It turns me off big time. No judgement from me to those that do like that though.

I like it only when in that play mode but like both you and Sie find it degrading. Honestly for me its more the acknowledgement that I am to into my man that I would do anything for him if that makes sense?

Yes, makes a lot of sense. I understand why women like it. Though, I tried it and it turned me off.

Aww thanks Affinity.... I don't judge what others like either but in all honesty it would probably hurt my feelings if he ever called me mean names.....or even wanted too. Another part of D/s we don't get into is the punishments that leave bruises or do real damage. I'm fine with a lil pain here and there but no more. I'd rather it all feel real nice! :D

That is totally how I feel too Sie!

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Omg Sie now you got me worked up! I wanna try this too if and when I'm ever I'm a committed relationship. This story R-O-C-K-S ROCKS!

Aww thanks Caramel! I totally hope you find Mr. Right and enjoy many years of it!! You will to. I just know it! :) ♥