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I Want To Discuss Bdsm - Also Seen As Bd, Ds, Sm

A Book Review Please...

By: SunniL
Written on February 1st, 2013
Has anyone read "Consensual Sadomasochism : How to Talk About It and How to Do It Safely"?

I spotted it a few days ago and wondered if it was a good read.  I am weird when it comes to books, I wait until someone has either given me, suggest I read a specific one, or can actually see the book like in a book store...

Any comments or suggestions of other books too would be awesome!
By: SunniL
Age: 46-50 , Female
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  • affinityterra
    affinityterra

    Never heard about it, but seems like something that would interest me as well. Let me know if you get a chance to read it.

    Feb 4
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    • SunniL
      SunniL

      Will do, I plan on ordering it when I make my next book extravaganza purchase in a week or so!

      Feb 4
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    • SunniL
      SunniL

      And as stupid as this is going to sound coming from me... I am hoping it has some information in there to depart to my Man. He is falling off the deep end of sadism as of late and well, quite frankly, I need to reel him back in a touch! Not control him, just reel him in a little!

      Feb 4
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    • affinityterra
      affinityterra

      I have a friend that wrote a book that is pretty good. You might find it interesting.
      http://myravenslair.com/

      Feb 4
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  • Scarcollection
    Scarcollection

    Nope, but I do have some piece of advice: don't assume anything by De Sade is actually BDSM-related. :-p
    I have no idea why people think reading De Sade has anything to do with sadomasochism...

    What I thought was a good read was The Mastery of Submission: Inventions of Masochism by Sina-Aline Geisler.
    Or if you happen to be able to read in German: the German title is Lust an der Unterwerfung: Frauen bekennen sich zum Masochismus.

    It's a collection of stories by women how they discovered their submissiveness/masochism and telling their journey in discovering the lifestyle.

    Feb 1
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    • SunniL
      SunniL

      ROFL! Uh Scar? I have a little experience with SM... LOL!

      I have a tendency to stay away from books pertaining to masochism. I have always stood behind that I am not a masochist except for during sex. I like a bit of the pain that comes from non-sexually orientated exploits as long as it stays within my reasonable limits today. I was not as smart and way to complicit during the first several years.

      I will check this book out though that you mention. Mainly because I live with someone who does enjoy the pain even though I don't play Domme for him... expect in the mornings when his happy *** won't get out of bed! /giggle

      De Sade was a sociopath. Anything that even suggests or hints of his name usually makes me stop reading it!

      Feb 1
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