Six Months

In the six months since I got married my husband has not kissed me, hugged me, held me, or made love to me....I miss it.

backwoodsbelle backwoodsbelle
22-25, F
6 Responses Mar 3, 2010

This is not normal and you need to know why you are being ignored. I'd say marriage counseling would be a good thing for you both...before it is too late. Good luck. dc

It's way past time to talk about it. A person with a normal sexual appetite can not live like this without deeply resenting their spouse in all matters.

Vow.. its too early in the marriage for that to happen...Hope things turn around for you

Interesting how sometimes we meet, fall in love with, and marry a person KNOWING that they are not, in all probability, going to fulfill our most basic needs. I have done it not once or twice, but three times... sigh... you'd think I would learn! <br />
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I hope that you are true to yourself... find what your needs are and go for it. Sooner or later you will need to come to a reckoning with your husband... to me, best to do it sooner, I believe... but that's my opinion.

Interesting how sometimes we meet, fall in love with, and marry a person KNOWING that they are not, in all probability, going to fulfill our most basic needs. I have done it not once or twice, but three times... sigh... you'd think I would learn! <br />
<br />
I hope that you are true to yourself... find what your needs are and go for it. Sooner or later you will need to come to a reckoning with your husband... to me, best to do it sooner, I believe... but that's my opinion.

Interesting how sometimes we meet, fall in love with, and marry a person KNOWING that they are not, in all probability, going to fulfill our most basic needs. I have done it not once or twice, but three times... sigh... you'd think I would learn! <br />
<br />
I hope that you are true to yourself... find what your needs are and go for it. Sooner or later you will need to come to a reckoning with your husband... to me, best to do it sooner, I believe... but that's my opinion.