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I have been in a relationship for five years. This person has anger management issues. When she is "normal" she is happy and life-loving...but every other day she seems to freak out about some random incident. When she is angry she is willing to sacrifice everything, EVERYTHING....until she has her way. Here is an example. A couple weeks ago I received a 200 speeding ticket and she decided that I a can never be relied upon and that I am too immature...maybe we should see other people. It is very hard to be with a person who gambles all-or-nothing every other day with our relationship. I don't know where this other person comes from. I have recommended anger management classes but she just thinks I am trying to harm/embarass her. Any advice?
endlesspursuit endlesspursuit
31-35, M
1 Response Jun 8, 2012

I have been in an on and off relationship for 6 years and he change. I now know that after all I have been thro I don't want to do it anymore because I cant take it. For u if u can handle it be with her but if just a little part of u want to get out u should think bout it it and get out because u cant change her if she doesn't want to be changed. I learn sometime loving someone is not enough to be with them u also have to be happy