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Damn Straight

I don't really want a girlfriend, don't just want friend I can straddle on regular occasions. I want a soulmate: someone who strokes my heartstrings bringing forth that beautiful melody of bliss and someone who can kindle my soul, causing it to burn all the brighter with love. This is what I want - I want the passion, the love - the fiery desire. I want the woman who walks into the room and from the minute I feel her enter, I can't take my eyes off her. Maybe it is a hopeless dream of a romantic but I can't help in wanting it all the same.

I also want someone who cannot control their passion for me and vice versa. I don't want to be the only one drowning. I want her to crave me like a cigarette or another drink. Call it being dramatic if you will but if you can't be craved and hungered for voraciously - what the heck is the point??

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That was beautiful! I wish you the best of luck in your search of a woman with equivalent passion to yours.

<p>beautiful, I couldn't have done better myself</p>

Pls i need a true love

Hi, I found this guys on Youtube, he has a lot of videos that can help ! his name is Momo<br />
look him up, Momo from TheMomoZone, you can even send him a question :)

You put that so eloquently , hope you find yours (and same goes for the rest of the group )

this is beautiful. Not everyday you find a man this passionate. You are a gem whose woman will be lucky. I hope she is deserving.

Want a G/F suck **** me 18 to 26

This is so sweet and you are the hunter, so go out and find your soul mate. Pray and ask God to guide you in the right direction and I know for sure you will find her. And when you do please let all of us here on EP know ,we all will be so happy for you.

That was such a marvelous ex<x>pression of love. “Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.” Lao Tzu quote.

Very nice! i want someone just like that..too : /

You would think you would come across this person on EP.

i feel the same

Hi I just read what you want in a soulmate and it's to the word every bit what I want in one too, I makes me happy to know that there is guys out their that believe in love as much as I do. I was wondering have you found her yet?.

I couldn't have said it better myself and I will find him someday when I leas expect it and so will you. :)

Finding your soul mate odds are like winning the lottery; but then it can happen.<br />
I found mine and I hit the jack pot . <br />
She was all that you expressed and mush much more.<br />
Some search for that treasure bot many find it.<br />

I've been thinking about this piece alllll day! I'm going to have to read more of your stuff. Glad u have some potential soulmates in your world. Im confident that u will not settle for anyone less- good for you!

love it!

It has been a year since your beautifully written post, which brought tears to my eyes. Tell me, have you found her yet?

I love that. That's perfect. I want all that but most of all I want my soul mate to be my best friend.

Is she forbidden?? Will you cross the sea to find her if you have too??

As I read this my heart floated out my chest and I trully felt what you were saying. What you want and how you want it is very precious and beautiful. I have no doubt you will find her.

What a peice of work,that is so full of energy+srength.Did woman of your dreams arrive on your doorstep the next day? :)

I soooooooooooooooooo get you on this point:<br />
'I also want someone who cannot control their passion for me and vice versa. I don't want to be the only one drowning. I want her to crave me like a cigarette or another drink.'<br />
amen, amen! <br />

Well this may sound cynical too you. But people fall in love without really knowing who their partners really are and end up getting hurt. I wouldn't mind having a lot more emotional ob<x>jectivity with regard to potential partners and that means keeping an emotional distance. So yes, I would as far as possible like to control to a great extent how I feel about a person. Hearts are precious things. It's just wise in my opinion to be cautious to give a relationship space before you fall head over heals in love.

Beautifully said; The desire for a soul mate is an age old thing. Who doesn't want someone who gets them. Is intuitive to your needs and craves your presence like a drug or addiction? Someone who sets fire to your soul and makes magic come alive in your life. Someone with wit and depth and whose entire being resonates with yours. Is there such a thing???

respect ...if its what you want speak to the universe to the world in the next strangers ear.....go get it

I feel the same way. That is truly living and loving. Some people claim to want this but really don't understand the dephs of really being in it that deep. To experience something so deep and powerful can vibrate your DNA to higher levels.

I love how you express yourself.

This is something worth waiting for. I hope you find her because when you do, it will change your life.<br />
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WIB, I don't see this as a desire to fill a personal shortcoming. It is the soul to soul connection with another person, and the passion that goes with it.<br />
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I have had this happen to me before and it was mutual; 22 years ago. And yes, trying to get over him has been like trying to kick a drug habit - which still hasn't worked.<br />
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In a few weeks I will see him again for the first time since then. I have no idea what will happen!

Definitions and explanations are always difficult when it comes to this subject. I think we all have our own interpretation of what we mean by soulmate - I think we all need pretty much the same things in life when it comes down to it.

Surely you don't need someone else to tell you when you are being arrogant or badly behaved? It's not about judging yourself to be wonderful and not caring about what anyone else thinks. The point of being your own soulmate is about self-reliance and being your own best friend - that happiness and contentment are within and not to be found externally - least of all to be given to you by someone else. The constant search for "another" to fulfill us is, I believe fruitless, and leads to unhappiness and disappointment. Learn to love yourself first, then others will follow.<br />
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I don't believe that looking outside of ourselves for fulfillment really works. That's not to say that we can't have full and loving relationships with people, nor that we don't need others in our lives. I just believe that we give and take different things from many, not just one.

I sooooooooooo get you with this one, too! I want a person to make the effort, show an interest-- not just 'talk the talk' cos his other head got horny. <br />
Someone I can look at for a second, and they already know what kind of a day I've had.

I am a true believer, like you MM, but I differ in my description of a soul mate which is not the same thing as what you are seeking in my opinion.

I love the way you wrote this...and it also expresses my own feelings very well. (Except replacing the woman with a man, lol.) Very lovely story. :)

"Buildings burn, People die, Real love is forever" ~The Crow<br />
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But I'm with you when you say it seems like it's not possible in this day and age. People seem too.. selfish. Or jaded, like me.

Love is it's own goal...our mutual goal...the only goal..everything else is window dressing...<br />
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It's like cocaine, baby....before the rush even starts to fade, you want more...I feel it, too, know me....I want the same f*****g thing you do...or like you said...what the **** is the point????

well i hope you go to the light luke as your avatar dark angel freaks me out a little

Good Point, but I believe some people get scared when they get too close and then they run away. Don't they know sometimes you get only one chance at a opportunity like this??? Fear is not an option!!! Good Luck in your quest. Lily

wow you wrote this with such passion... very nicely put

wow you wrote this with such passion... very nicely put

You mean you do not wish to smell all the different aromas of different flowers of the garden? The garden has many different smells! <br />
:P<br />
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Seems like you have had your experiences and have matured out of that "stage." And now you want the dream. Correct?

Great story......

This is beautiful FSG. I know she is out there but sometimes that person may not come within our time fr<x>ames.