Finding The Right One

My wife and I have talked about having a sister wife but as of yet have not found "the one". We are not mormon and actully not into religion all that much but we have been thinking having that loving relationship would be fantastic. There are several ways we could work this out as we have 2 homes. Our children are "grown" but that doesn't mean we are opposed to having more if it is something we all agree on. The big question is how do we go about finding that special person and if we do how long should the "courting" period last before we have the marriage chat? Not a lot of out here from people that have made it work for the long haul. Does anyone have any advise?
sterling119 sterling119
46-50, M
Jan 14, 2013