Plz Help Me Out

Hi rakshitha!!

You need to completely overhaul your feelings. And it should be urgently done. Ask yourself some questions and preferaby write their answers down.

1) Why do you feel shy?
2) What is your greatest fear?
3) Why do you feel sad so often, why do cry for silly things?
4) Why don't you want to meet people, why do you feel uncomfortable around them?

The purpose of the above excersice is to make yourself aware of your feelings. Why do you behave the way you behave? You should know the answer.

Then the next step would be to write down the desired state of being with respect to each of the above questions. You should write down, that you need a job, and for that you'll have to learn to mingle with people, and to do that you'll have to wipe out the factors that prevent you from doing what you want to do.

The factors that you would want to get rid of, would be internal as well as external in nature. You should first focus on the internal ones, and once you do that, the external ones would be just taken care of by you effortlessly.

You need to tell yourself that you do not want to feel shy from now on, you do not want to cry for little little things, tell yourself you are friendly, you are smart, just start feeling differently about yourself and do things that make you happy.

Best of luck.