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God Gave Me Him!

I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 16 YEARS AND SEPARATED FOR 2 YEARS. MY MARRIAGE WAS RIDDLED WITH ABUSE AND HEARTACHE. AFTER MULTIPLE STRUGGLES AFTER SEPARATION, I WAS CONVINCED I'D BE ALONE FOREVER. SO I PRAYED AND PRAYED FOR A MAN WHO WOULD LOVE ME REGARDLESS OF MY STRUGGLES. WHEN I HAD BASICALLY GIVEN UP, HE FELL INTO MY LIFE. IT WAS LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT!! HE HAS BEEN WITH ME AND STOOD BY ME THROUGH MORE THAN ANY MAN WOULD OR MAYBE EVEN SHOULD. I WANT NOTHING MORE THAN TO MARRY HIM! BUT MY EX BASICALLY REFUSES TO GIVE ME A DIVORCE, VERY FRUSTRATING!
I HAVE NEVER BEEN MORE IN LOVE WITH ANYONE AS MUCH AS HIM! HE MAKES ME SMILE WITHOUT DOING ANYTHING AT ALL. THAT ITSELF SEEMS SO AMAZING TO ME AFTER THE MISERY OF MY FIRST MARRIAGE. WE LIVE TOGETHER, WE TEND TO EACH OTHERS NEEDS, PRAY TOGETHER, AND PROMISED OURSELVES TO EACH OTHER. BUT IT WOULD BE SO NICE TO FINALLY BE ABLE TO MAKE IT CONCRETE WITH THE VOWS OF MARRIAGE.
AND I GUESS ITS TRUE THAT OPPOSITES ATTRACT! IM A 34 YR OLD BBW ROCKER CHICK AND HES A 49 YR OLD , TALL AND SLENDER COWBOY. YEEHAWW! LOVE COMES IN MANY FORMS AND USUALLY COMES WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT.... NEVER GIVE UP IF YOU ARE STILL LOOKING FOR THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE.
cowboysboo cowboysboo 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 12, 2012

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I'm in a similar situation waiting on my divorce, be the man I fell in love with is waiting until the divorce is final. Broke my heart knowing I have to wait so long and deal with all this alone.

I'm glad you have found that special someone. Keep believing, and everything else will work out. :-)

Oh ok. congrats and i hope you get those divorce papers

yess, girl! Never give up. I'm happy for you, and even if your ex husband doesn't want to divorce you, will you still marry now if your current lover proposed? Have you talked to him about marriage or you're still keeping it within you?

He has already proposed! We just waiting on my divorce to move ahead with plans.