I Really Do

I love my partner to pieces, I really do. My partner claims to love me to pieces too and doesn't mind getting married again, but................. My partner is beginning transition, which is perfectly fine with me because I love the person for the mind, heart, and personality, but they don't want to marry again until after completion. I told my partner that I would like to for the person before transition to marry me and I would love to marry the person after transition. I just want to be married to both people for various reasons that they and I have discussed, but I am not having much luck with that battle.

I don't know what to do. I am at quite a loss. I cannot prove anymore to my partner that I am not like all the others, but I really am different. My word really can be taken at face value. My partner says that they want to believe me but they have been screwed over so many times, that it makes it hard to believe that an honest person really does exist and that I do mean what I say. We have been friends for several years and a couple for just over 2 years. I'm have yet to be known as a liar, and I don't plan on starting now. I live by the old saying, A man is only as good as his word."

Any suggestions would be great.
Bubbles48509 Bubbles48509
36-40, F
3 Responses Jan 15, 2013


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I don't understand what is his problem...? why doesn't he want to do it twice? He should allow you to make that decision. And to be honest he should be happy that you want to do it before transition and after and he should respect you for that. Is it a total transition?