I Would Like to Go Out On a Date

I think that u don't give your self enough Opportunities.. u waste alot of years .... 4 times in 42 years that is very little attempts .... the other was not giving up and still trying instead of being afraid of having the reply no .

Oh no Daniel, I think I asked to meet you when I was in London, and you said you were busy lol

i would have loved to go out on a date with you newsoul 1 when you were in london.and i was in coventry this is only two hours away but you said no to me taking you round the sites and history of London. it is on your whiteboard .maybe when you are in london again .i will get to do so.

a real date where you can laugh,hold hand walk at the park and talk about whatever thats the date I would like a real date to be one self,,

a real date means ,getting dressed to go to a show .but go for a meal first in scotland in a 13 cent castle.in london the south bank at london bridge.or the strand.go out for some wine .and talking.lots of talking.and for those that are married you should do this once a month.have fun.or go to a night club.you do not need to drink you can have soft drinks.for those that do not drink.

I'm glad we're friends Daniel, you've got the true heart and soul of a romantic, something not all men have. I don't know why some women play these games, complaining that men aren't romantic enough and then saying no to a gent like you. If I were in Scotland, I would say yes to a date. Since I'm not, we can be EP friends.

Okay man I have not been following your stories or comments but after reading this I find I have to open my big mouth.
When, as a callow youth, I was employed as an insurance agent/salesman I was sent to a training seminar. The gist of the training was "Don't accept a no. Don't give up. You must be able to take ten "nos" in a row if you hope to make the sale".
So ... I suggest you adopt that approach. If you really want to connect with a woman be persistent. Ten may be too many “nos” but giving up after only one attempt and only make the effort 4 times in your life was certain to leave you alone.
Take the risk, rejection is painful but if you don't take a chance you can't win the prize. It is after all, the only game in town so you might as well play. It’s not as if losing puts you out of the running. Each rejection/loss is one more step toward winning the hand of a fine woman eventually.
It’s never too late to fall in love. Throw away your date specs and go with the flow. A date is not a predefined event. If you want to be loved you must begin by seeing the potential in all women and then offer your affection to the lady you fancy. You get refused? Move on. There are many, many lovely, sensual, loving women out there who are searching for you but you have to engage.
Go for it man.... Don't sit home alone another day!

Sorry for the rant... I'll step down from my soapbox now...
Good luck!