Im Starting to Hate My Husband Yet I Still Love Him.

He is so mean to me lately. I come home today and once again i go to get on my computer and i look at the history and there is all these **** sites he was looking at. I dont understand. then he lies when i confront him. He tries to turn everything around on me and of course i start yelling at him, then like always when i hit  a nerve with something i say he throws water in my face. I have had it with his crap. once he soaked me tonight, i got into the shower since i was soaked, he came into the bathroom and threw mustard, dog shampoo, lotion, syrup, and flour in my hair and face. I was so humiliated and i stood in the shower crying for him to leave me alone. He knows i cant leave cause i went back to college and he is working and i work parttime but barely make any money. I try so hard and yet he treats me worse than anything. I don't know what i am going to do. Everytime i try to say something, he just throws water in my face. I have had it. I just want it to go away.... How can he say he loves me , then hurt me?

secretsikeep secretsikeep
26-30
3 Responses Feb 9, 2009

holy hell...Im not normally violent but... I would have crushed is face in, if ANYONE thew crap in my face!

holy hell...Im not normally violent but... I would have crushed is face in, if ANYONE thew crap in my face!

It's been a while since you put up this post so I hope you've left that @ssho!e by now. <br />
His treatment of you in the shower is a clear example of emotional and physical abuse. <br />
Nobody would throw water in your face if they respected you as a person. Spraying water in the face is a behaviour modification technique for training dogs!<br />
You need to get out of there before it escalates into more violent behaviour, because it definitely will.<br />
If you can't leave right now then I suggest you stay away from his computer files or anything else that sets him off. Finish your college degree or get a better paying job so you can get free of him. <br />
Don't tell him of your plans either or his actions will get worse. If it gets any worse, you need to seek out your local domestic violence center - they can help. Good luck.