First Affair Scheduled For Tomorrow Night Consumation

I've always been faithful, after 11 years of marriage and 3 kids. I met a guy whos 27 years older than me. He's a neighbor in our community. And I am so attracted to him, its mutual. We've been seeing each other for a month now, but tomorrow we planned on getting a hotel room to finally consumate our desires.  I know its wrong, and my husband is a good guy, great dad and okay husband. I don't want to hurt him. But I can't help thinking about this guy all the time and sexting with him. He really drives me insane with lust. And my marriage bed is basically very cut and dry, 5 minutes at best.  My husband has no interest in spicing things up and recoils when suggested. I am doing it. I don't know how I'll feel after, but I'll write how it went.

jmor76 jmor76
31-35, F
5 Responses Mar 1, 2010

go ahead , to spice up things make sure u get pregnent by ur lover ,& let ur good guy husband raise ur affair child believing he is the the. father .<br />
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Btw if this other man is ur neighbour trust me , it will not take long for ur husband to get the news

MichaelJM - Your comment leads me to believe you really feel sorry for your own kids. And if you don't want this experience for yourself, are you here just to judge others? Do you like when others judge you? Maybe you should try hanging around a group where you can practice being supportive and validating, not judging.

good ur at least straight and live ur life....

I am experiencing "affair envy"! Have a great time, and I will be checking back to hear how it went.

Hope it goes well for you.