I'm Having One.

I'm having an affair, and I don't feel a bit bad about it.

I havent been this happy, for so long that I was forgeting the joy of life.

Prudence. Prudence. Prudence. is the key.

Sopphy Sopphy
22-25, F
10 Responses Mar 12, 2010

I am married and our sex life sucks...I want to badly have an affair...

Maybe it is not in human nature to be manogomous. Marriage where the state and church get revenue. Some folks seem content or a good fit maybe it works for them it didn't for me.<br />
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May we all find it and savor the moments.

I found my soulmate............. then lost him. If I ever find him again I will have to shoot him

If you're having an affair, to say you married the wrong person is a given isn't it? <br />
I think I figured it though....she's still married, knocking someone off on the side long distance who she believes is her soulmate. I'll only believe their soulmates if he lets her explore her curious side

I'm a little confused by your stories. Your bi/curious, are married, having an affair and you've found your soulmate? I take it the soulmate is not your husband???

hi , also got a new guy and its fantastic as i feel great now after my 28yrs maried and i,d never thought i,d do such a thing but we wont be doing any homebreaking i,d love to here more about u

To WyrdHippie: ...Because sometimes your spouse will not let you go. I have said to my husband several times, over the past 2-3 years, that I want a separation or divorce, and he does not take me seriously. Wants to work on the relationship, etc. Now that I am having an affair, things have gotten more complicated with "just leaving"...and part of me still loves my husband, and there are children involved. I can just get so complicated...I am already confused thinking about it as I am writing...I wish it could be so easy...maybe one day it will be :-)!

ME TOO! It is so fantastic!! I am alive again! i feel no guilt, and do not feel bad about this. I can not wait to see him again! My husband suspects...but he has treated me poorly and neglected me for the past 3 years and knows that he basically drove me into the arms of an old flame and can not really make any demands on me. Surprisingly...our marriage is getting better. I have no expectations of the affair...he is unhappily married, but I do not expect him to leave his family as he does not expect me to leave mine.<br />
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I was almost suicidal with my husband (my children kept me going)...my life was so dark and lonely. My affair is bringing life back to me! I love it and WILL NOT GIVE THE AFFAIR UP!!

ME TOO! It is so fantastic!! I am alive again! i feel no guilt, and do not feel bad about this. I can not wait to see him again! My husband suspects...but he has treated me poorly and neglected me for the past 3 years and knows that he basically drove me into the arms of an old flame and can not really make any demands on me. Surprisingly...our marriage is getting better. I have no expectations of the affair...he is unhappily married, but I do not expect him to leave his family as he does not expect me to leave mine.<br />
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I was almost suicidal with my husband (my children kept me going)...my life was so dark and lonely. My affair is bringing life back to me! I love it and WILL NOT GIVE THE AFFAIR UP!!

First, let me say that I absolutely adore your avatar picture which is fitting since you are talking about "key" as in keyboard.<br />
If you're happy and you don't feel bad about it then you won't be showing any guilt... the rest is about managing time and excuses...<br />
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How long have you been having the affair?