Sex & My Fiance [edited]

I'm really not sexually attracted to my fiance right now.  I don't really know why.  It's not just him, actually, my libido is just totally shot.  I think it's the birth control that I switched to.  Still, last night, I was sleeping at his place and his roommates were having sex after we went to bed.  I woke up to the sound of his female roommate's ******, and I haven't been that turned on in months.  I just wanted to jump him right then and there.  Of course... it was about 3 a.m. and he had to work at 5 a.m.... so I didn't.

[Edit:

Yep, desire issues have cleared up.  Switched to a different birth control, which cleared up whatever arousal problems I was having.  Yay modern medicine, er...
Chanteuse1984 Chanteuse1984
26-30, F
5 Responses Jun 6, 2007

Glad to hear things are better now. I agree with bizbuz, you SHOULD have awoken him! Especially if the roommates were still going at it... it's HOT to have sex while listening to someone else having sex! And 3am vs. 5am... sounds perfect... time for a nice, long sex-session, and still time for a shower and to get ready for work...

Smoking weed and and taking ecstacy gives me unbelievable fantastic sex and shots up my libido. Ha! Ha! Wake your fiance up next time

You should have followed your instinct; most men will gladly trade sleep for sex.<br />
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On another note I hope any desire issues have cleared up. I don't mean to be gloomy but such issues tend to become more exaggerated after marriage, which in turn add a lot of stress to the marriage.

Personally, I would have loved to be woken up by a woman wanting sex... expecially if she was my fiance!<br />
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You should have gone for it.

I bet he wishes you did.