A Good Hotwife Is An Orgasmic Hotwife.Reversing the roles of husband and lover is an integral part of being a hotwife. This extends to the pleasures of oral sex (spitting vs. swallowing), experimental sex (being bolder with her lover and more routine with her husband), and timed sex (giving her lover the most intense days of her sexual cycle for her highest pleasure). It should also eventually extend to condom usage, transitioning her husband to condoms while giving her lover the freedom of going bareback. Frequency, of course, is also key, making sure that her lover enjoys her fruits more often than her husband.
A big step in elevating a hotwife's lover to the role typically occupied by the husband is the female ******, or climax. A man can typically ****** even under less-than-ideal sexual situations, and it will take little for her lover or husband to reach their explosive peaks during intercourse. But it typically takes a great deal of both comfort and/or lust for the woman to climax through actual vaginal intercourse. So it is important for a practicing hotwife to demonstrate both her lust for, and comfort with, her lover by giving-in completely to those exciting moments of passion with him and reaching that pinnacle of sexual pleasure - those moments of uncontrolled contractions of intense pleasure - while he is inside of her.
Few things in the hotwife/cuckold experience will play so important a role in elevating her lover to no-less-than-equal status with her husband than when she is so completely comfortable with the situation (and her lover) that she is able to ****** simply from finding the correct rhythm during penetrative intercourse. It is a small step from that point to solidifying the role reversal with any additional step forward in the hotwife experience. Once her lover is made to feel that personal high that comes from knowing he can make her ****** in that way, he will pursue her with a renewed vigor and confidence, and the frequency of their intimacies will increase. Once her husband is made aware that another man is making her *** during intercourse, he will undoubtedly begin a heightened period of sexual fantasy, as triggered by both his natural instinct to win the ***** competition, and by his emotional desire to be the one inducing those lustful emotions in his wife such that she will reach her climax during intercourse. His desire for her will only increase as he is further relegated to being the secondary man in her sexual life.
Being allowed or made to hear (or perhaps see) his wife reach such a high with her lover will induce a flood of raw emotions in the husband that will instantly enhance the cuckold/hotwife experience. He will be unable to avoid reliving the moment during sex or simply when having sexual thoughts. A playful hotwife can use that persistent memory to find creative ways to enhance pillow talk with her husband, and intensify foreplay. Another recommended practice is to use the husband's desire to make her *** to implement condom usage; while she is free to enjoy intercourse however she pleases (both with her husband and her lover), a great hotwife technique she can introduce is to both verbally and physically signal a heightened sense of pleasure with her husband when he is wearing a condom, while experiencing "difficulties" getting into the "groove of things" when her husband is unwrapped. Very quickly, the husband will surrender to his emotional need to have the hotwife enjoy intercourse with him as much as possible, and will give-in to the role reversal with mininmal struggle.
In a hotwife/cuckold relationship, it is common and even important that the husband be made aware of his wife's ability to ****** during intercourse with her lover. Allowing him to hear, live or recorded, or perhaps even see her reach this climax while another man is inside of her is a giant step in the relationship, and can be a pivotal point from which other aspect of the hotwife experience can be soon introduced. It is not at all uncommon for the husband to become accustomed to the thought of her ******* with her lover, or for his emotions and sense of fantasy and voyeurism to overcome him such that he craves and desires to hear/see it happen again and again.