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But Only If It Is True...

Tell me that you love me but only if it is true. I don't want to hear it if it is not true. It hurts to much to have to second guess whether the love was true or not in the most fabulous relationship you have ever had.  So tell me you love me if you do but only if you mean it with all your heart.  I promise that I will only say those words to you if I truly feel them.

fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 21 Responses Jul 5, 2008

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I've only said I Love You to three people- my dad just before he died,my mom just before she died and to my soulmate Nicole just before she left me, and I meant it with all my heart each time. I now have ambivalent feelings about using the phrase- as its result has only been pain for me. Makes me wonder sometimesif I should ever say it at all.

I've only said I Love You to three people- my dad just before he died,my mom just before she died and to my soulmate Nicole just before she left me, and I meant it with all my heart each time. I now have ambivalent feelings about using the phrase- as its result has only been pain for me. Makes me wonder sometimesif I should ever say it at all.

SML, I know I loved this man but it wasn't real from his side. I want it to be real from all sides or I don't want it. I am not looking for that at all anymore.

I didn't read the comments but read your story and.................if you are happy with someone saying you love them is right on the money but if you are not fully there and you just say them............its a faultie way to have a relationship with someone.<br />
You are so right on!

Actions speak louder that words but words too can be very powerful.<br />
There's just something so magical about those three words.<br />
To love and be loved is so wonderful - I am both

I also only ever want to hear the words if they are sincere. The hurt of finding out later that it's not is too great.<br />
Sailing - I love you with all my heart, body and soul! You know I only ever say what I mean

I had the passion with mune hippy right up to the last day at the airport and leaving with us both crying. It was an amazing experience bc I now know what it feels to truly be in love unconditionally with a person however at the same time it is also hell on my heart.

Oh yes they must be sincere Snowy. Nothing like finding out it was "I love you until someone I think is better comes along." and being the one that was/is truly loving.<br />
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HBY, Yes it is a good thing bc I have never given my body to anyone I didn't love and that is a true fact about this fungirl. LOL I love you girl and if I had to show a female my boobs I am glad it was you. lol

Who couldnt love you fungirlmmm, I sure do!! <br />
But I agree those 3 words are nice to hear as long as the person saying them is sincere!

Words I LOVE YOU are very strong. They must be utter very carefully. And must be from the heart.

Princess I totaly agree, I have always tried to say what I mean and mean what I say.<br />
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When I say the words I LOVE YOU to some one then I mean it.

I know too. We both know.... i will be rather quiet....

You already know I totally love you, girl. I tell you all the time. You are one of my bestest friends. A lifetime friend. I am truly blessed to have you. It's a good thing we are such great friends too, since I have seen your boobs ;)<br />
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Couldn't resist. Made you laugh!

Ft, I have moved on somewhat.

You'll get there...wiser and smarter.

FT, You are so wonderful.I am glad we are becoming friends. I have found that just bc a man puts effort in<br />
doesn't mean he isn't looking to "trade up." I am still a little hurt with my last break up but I am trying hard.

Fungirl, make sure that he shows that he loves you too. Talk is cheap but love is an action verb.

BTW Aalekh, I cant get angry on you! It's not possible haha:)

thanks... :D

Ahhh I love both of you and I am glad we can all love each other.

i know how you love her... in another way than me. I understand dont worry heheh :D <br />
I love you my coffee bean. your sesame seed.