This was by far the hardest thing I have ever had to deal with. I was 19 years old and pregnant by a much older man who didn't want to be with me. He made this perfectly clear every day except for the days where he was trying to convince me to have an abortion and saying that we have a lot of time to have a baby. He made life hell, physically, mentally and emotionally at a time when I needed support. He was abusive physically and verbally. He cheated me on me with his ex and would sneak out while I was in his bed to be with her when he thought I was asleep. She would call me and tell me everything he said to her. Eventually I said **** him and left! Then a couple years later when I am in a healthy relationship, he takes me to court for custody. Aint life a *****.