Advice?

I am in need of some advice. I will be getting married in June (woohoo) but I need to come up with a decission on if I want to stay in the states and start getting a home ready or move to Korea with him..... I would LOVE to be with him but I also like the idea of him having a home to come home to so we wouldn't have to live with his grandparents till we got back on our feet. I have alot of things on my mind and alot of stress. I would love advice and maybe stories from wives who traveled with their husbands.
Thank you so much.