I Want to Hear Your Story, Military Girlfriends
Hi there, my name is Ashley and I don't believe I have told my story of how we met yet...:) So one evening I was sitting in my house on the computer with a friend, and we talking about how there are nothing but losers, and no one good in our town that doesn't come with a history or drama. So she goes hey Ash why not a >dating website, I paused and thought to myself that isn't me I would never do something like that, so being outgoing and sticking with my theory that there is nothing I wouldn't try once... :) So I did it, I filled out an >online dating site:) A few days after being on there, a handsome guy with a great smile caught my eye, and told my friend I thought he was cute, and ask her if she thought he would text me if I gave him my number. So a couple hours later I get this message from a number I don't know, saying hi there this is Tyler :) OOOOO my heart was a flutter, skipping beats, butterflies in stomach, and I didn't even know this guy.... :) So a few weeks went by and everyday we text for hours and our >phone calls were easily 3 to 4 hours long, one night I remember we talked for 6 hours. After a few weeks we decided we had to meet talking wasn't enough, so that amazing day came and he text me I am here, what street you live on and I told him, as he pulled up all I could do is smile, and think WOW! He walked right up with that amazing smile, and gave me a hug. We went out that night and had supper, showed him where I live and my town, and let him meet my mom, brother and my amazing lil 6 year old daughter... I could see the twinkle already in his eye with her and the way he looked at my daughter, and he said to me after we got back in car, how could anyone ever walk out on the two of you. (Brooke's real dad has never wanted nothing to do with her and cheated on me that is another story)... I said I have no clue and they are all missing out. He just smiled and said yup my gain....:) We went out that night and went to a local bar where my uncle works and he met my uncle, my uncle was truly amazed by him and he instantly got my uncles approval which amazed me because that don't come easy after how I was hurt. He spent the night that night and we had some interesting and funny events that night, which lead him and I to where we are. Ever since that night we have been inseperable and everyday even now I keep falling more and more in love with him. Everyday with him is a new journey and each day makes me stronger and the person I am growing into everyday.
Tyler and I have continued to grow everyday and our relationship has continued to blossom... He has formed a bond with my daughter and has taken that roll of daddy, and has truly blessed our lives with his presence and love. They are attached at the hip, and do everything together and at times is difficult because she misses him so much and he misses her so it makes it a lil difficult when he is gone. My mom who has never like any of my boyfriends who I thought would be tough to win over, surprised me, she loves Tyler just as if she has known him forever, my whole family loves him and adores him. My family is so amazing and supportive and just there for me. I met his amazing family a few short weeks later, and I have formed a bond with them as well as my daughter, we talk almost everyday and they are very helpful and supportive as they have already gone thru one deployment with him, and have helped me tons :)
This summer memorial day weekend is a day I will never forget we all went to Valley fair for a fun family day, and we all had an amazing time from sunrise to sunset. We came home that night, and were laying in bed, and he rolled over wrapped his arms around me, and whispered into my ear..... I LOVE YOU SO MUCH, my heart skipped a couple beats, and I repeated I love you too so much. From the day I saw him I knew I loved him, it was love at first sight. To this day we have a love so strong and pure, and everyday just amazes me so much! Can't wait to see how forever feels and finally have my happy ever after :) <3
He deploys here soon to Afganistan in March and this week I fear will be the toughest, my daughter is finally realizing he is gonna be gone for a while and it has just been tough and an emotional week.... I am a strong girl, and I know I can make it thru anything, and having him in my life is worth every second :) <3
I knew getting into this relationship he was in the military, and that is one of the things I love most about him, he is accomplished and has goals ,a bright future. I feel very lucky that it is me he is choosing to share his life with.
Tyler and I have continued to grow everyday and our relationship has continued to blossom... He has formed a bond with my daughter and has taken that roll of daddy, and has truly blessed our lives with his presence and love. They are attached at the hip, and do everything together and at times is difficult because she misses him so much and he misses her so it makes it a lil difficult when he is gone. My mom who has never like any of my boyfriends who I thought would be tough to win over, surprised me, she loves Tyler just as if she has known him forever, my whole family loves him and adores him. My family is so amazing and supportive and just there for me. I met his amazing family a few short weeks later, and I have formed a bond with them as well as my daughter, we talk almost everyday and they are very helpful and supportive as they have already gone thru one deployment with him, and have helped me tons :)
This summer memorial day weekend is a day I will never forget we all went to Valley fair for a fun family day, and we all had an amazing time from sunrise to sunset. We came home that night, and were laying in bed, and he rolled over wrapped his arms around me, and whispered into my ear..... I LOVE YOU SO MUCH, my heart skipped a couple beats, and I repeated I love you too so much. From the day I saw him I knew I loved him, it was love at first sight. To this day we have a love so strong and pure, and everyday just amazes me so much! Can't wait to see how forever feels and finally have my happy ever after :) <3
He deploys here soon to Afganistan in March and this week I fear will be the toughest, my daughter is finally realizing he is gonna be gone for a while and it has just been tough and an emotional week.... I am a strong girl, and I know I can make it thru anything, and having him in my life is worth every second :) <3
I knew getting into this relationship he was in the military, and that is one of the things I love most about him, he is accomplished and has goals ,a bright future. I feel very lucky that it is me he is choosing to share his life with.