Horrible Journey Into a Child Molester's Mind
Here is another story I'm re-posting here at this group, which was originally posted by me at GoldenArrow's group on paedophilia/**********. If you agree with any of the points here, please show your support by "recommending" this story. Here goes:
I feel duty-bound to set out a few of the very common lines which child molesters use in order to justify to the harm they cause to children, and -- worst still -- "groom" their victims, as well as other paedophiles whom they encourage to commit dreadful crimes so that they can enjoy hearing about it from them.
Basically, they use a lot of distorted reasons and "fixes" to hold things together.
Many of them try to see the child as their "betrothed," hoping that their religious vow of pre-marital chastity will keep their hands away from the child.
It never does.
The false fantasy of thinking of the child as a "future wife" alleviates guilt by falsely romanticising what they are doing. And it enables them to deceive themselves into thinking that anything they might have done or might do or might be tempted to do can simply be wiped out one day by marrying the child.
It is not right for a man to be thinking of a child as his "betrothed".
And it will not stick, because they are not sexually attracted to adult women. They are lying to themselves when they tell themselves that they are going to marry her when she's legal. Because when that child matures, they will switch to another child. And it will start again.
Here are common examples of the kinds of lines which ALL pedophiles in denial use to justify molesting a child:
"Some day people will see that children are sexual beings."
"Yes, I do think that she was drawn to you..."
"I know this sounds crazy, but she was flirting with me..."
"She's very mature for her age, is 2 - 3 grades ahead of her age in some subjects..."
"She was fine until other people butted in and made her feel victimized." (*she didn't need anybody to make her "feel" victimized, she was already victimized. By the molester.)
USING THE CORRECT WORDS
My unbending response to any child molester is USE THE CORRECT WORDS.
Don't call her "the ten-year-old", call her "the child".
Having a sexual encounter with a child is "child molestation".
If you are a paedophile who has molested a child before, you are a "child molester".
If you have put any part of your body, or any ob
THE PRISON RAPE MYTH
One of the ugliest and most deliberately ignorant lies which child molesters tell themselves and each other is they are somehow helping society by doing everything possible to avoid prison.
The myth is that child molesters are targetted for prison rape by inmates (true) and that will turn them into even more dangerous child molesters.
I say that this argument is ignorant bullshit. I have a legal background and I can tell you that most judicial systems in developed countries are well aware of this and so a young, first-time offender with the potential for rehabilitation will be segregated, if he even receives a custodial sentence.
If you are a minor and think you are a paedophile, seek help while you are still a minor. Once you are legally an adult, chances are that the only agencies who can help you will be subject to reporting requirements.
THE ARMY MYTH
To child molesters who refuse to seek help because they are afraid that, "this will bar me from fulfilling my dream of joining the armed forces and serving my country," I'd like to say very clearly: Being a paedophile makes you unfit for service, you will most likely fail the psychological screening, and it was never an option for you. In fact, if you are a serviceman and are convicted of child molestation by a military tribunal, the penalties are going to be extremely severe."
I hope this didn't offend anybody out there. I feel that if you simply erase all paedophile groups and stories, the molesters will simply pop up elsewhere, better hidden. So I would like decent EP users to at least be able to recognize some of these "lines" and cliches which can be quite subtle but indicate the presence of a child molester.
Personally, I feel that it may even be better to contact Arsineh directly *before* you flag, so that EP has the option of acting before the molester suspects anything. Thank you and good luck!