Men See You As Desirable

Hmmm quite accurate, if I do say so myself! 
Unfortunately, I don't know if it's such a good thing...the more approachable a girl is, the more likely she is to get used. 

Men often find you immediately attractive and sensual
You're honesty is refreshingly beautiful ... it draws guys in
You are also able to be open with your feelings with no emotional baggage
Packing light means you enjoy new relationships easily.




blehtolife blehtolife
22-25, F
4 Responses May 21, 2012

"the more approachable a girl is, the more likely she is to get used", or the more likely she is to get what she really wants.

That is one way to look at it. I can't totally agree on the more approachable a girl is the more likely she is to get used. I think this is a two way street she has got to let herself be used.

Might I offer an edit:
The more approachable a girl is, the more guys are likely to want to use her.
I agree with toe..., the being used part requires the girl to let herself be used, either because she doesn't know any better (can't recognize that the guy is just a user), or because she is willing to let herself be.
Now you don't seem like the type that would be used and not know it, I mean you KNOW the current BF is using you. You are having a hard time stopping it, but you know it is happening.

And you don't seem like the type of girl that wants to be used. I do NOT think that wanting to be used is necessarily a bad thing, but you just do not seem like that type of girl.

So I say stick with the "attractive and sensual" part, and to the best of your abilities, don't let your self be used.

Appearance plays no part in how approachable a woman is. A lose woman is a lose woman. A self respecting woman regardless of appearance commands respect just by the way she carries herself in public.

...huh? i don't see how this comment is relevant, but i'll respond to it anyways...
appearance DOES play a part in how approachable a woman is - actually, just how approachable a person is. if someone appears to be pissed off not wanting to talk to anyone, i probably wouldn't approach them unless i had to. if you're speaking in terms of physical attractiveness, then i do kinda understand. however, i know a lot of guys who find really physically attractive women less approachable & more intimidating. so a lot of the time it does play a significant role.
& what defines a lose woman (or man) changes from person to person - what would you consider to be a "lose woman"?
& typically (i'm pretty sure) you have to approach someone (& at least talk to them & get to know them a little) in order to get an idea of how much "self respect" they have - you can't know this by merely from person's "appearance". i respect myself, but i don't command respect from anyone - i just wouldn't associate myself with someone who is disrespectful towards me :) i'm respectful of people, but i don't just respect everyone (& so don't expect that in return) - people have to earn my respect.