How Can I Stop Being Insecure....................

Worried about cheating, and insecurity with myself. It is ruining my life and my relationship. Someone in my family cheated, and I was very dramatized, and depressed and it was really rough for me, but I moved on and forgave them, but I guess it still bothers me, and tortures me here and there. Im still affected by it and it hurts. It sucks...I wish I could think I'm hot and wasnt insecure, and was delierious and never knew about cheating. What I have decided to do is just say every guy cheats, and that way if in the future who ever I' am with does it .....it wont shock me or hurt me as much... I would just be like I expected that. To where if I say my man is not cheating, and later find out...... it would hurt and shock me more. Im sure whoever reads this there like this is wrong, but its to make me not go crazy or loose it or get sick. Even if I know he is not cheating...... I would still think that way. Please can anyone give me great advice or someone i can relate to it ....it would be helpful...... thank you so much for listening..............









Holly..................
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1 Response Aug 9, 2010

i understand.. I've been there and yeah it sucks.. But now i learned to control it by trusting my man(ex) and giving time for my friends so i won't always think about my man 24/7..