Met a Lover On Craigs List

True: I have responded to dozens of posts in on line personal ads. Almost never get anything going. Well I got a response froma 40ish lady whose husband was sick, in a sexless relationship. He gave her the OK. She said she weeded through about 200 male replies. responded to 4, then semiregular with two, one of which was me. She said she picked me because I was safe, married with children and my wife's a repressed prude. After about 25 back and forths we met at a restaurant. We hit it off and had about 8 more encounters. I got fearful of being caught when I ran into an acquaintence while leaving one hotel. She knew my wife. It did not get back toher but I shut down and we agreed to end the affair. I had amazing sex with this woman. She was very pent up and had gone two years without an O. She had more O's with me in 8 meetings than my wife of 20 years had total. That was two years ago, No one ever found out. The already bad relationship she was in broke off, possibly because the guy underestimated his cuckolded jealousy. In the end, I'm  a better man for it. I'm more confident and no longer so needy with the wife. She hasn't changed, but I have

Might try it again b ut hard to stomach the whole secrecy thing.

my true CL affair story

 

 

wilddoque wilddoque
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9 Responses Feb 16, 2009

Thank you for your honest story.... It is hard to live with such a secret when you love someone and you need to be dishonest.

Add a response...Hello, I am a Bull, we can talk

It's generally best to place your own ad, only because other advertisers find it almost impossible to respond to everyone who writes them, particularly on sites like Adult Friend Finder and Ashley Madison. Those are, in our opinion, the two best because they have - to the best of our knowledge - the largest number of visitors.We think it's unrealistic to expect advertisers to respond to every inquiry. There are just too many.Finally, if you place an ad, you should state it without obscenities, with a facial photo but not that of your "private member," don't think they want to know your "size." Keep it clean and honest. Gross replies will turn off almost anyone you want to know; only the most desperate usually reply to that kind of ad response, email or snail-mail.And there's one more thing we can think of at this moment to consider: at least a few of those personals ads are by husbands whose wife doesn't even know they visit those sites, by dishonest degenerates and by a few who are curious and only investigating the possibility. If any of those reply, you're unlikely to ever find one who will personally meet with you.And - if you do set up a first meeting, make it at some "neutral" location, like a restaurant or coffee shop. experienced, reasonable people appreciate that because they realize you're allowing them to evaluate you and vice-versa.

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It's generally best to place your own ad, only because other advertisers find it almost impossible to respond to everyone who writes them, particularly on sites like Adult Friend Finder and Ashley Madison. Those are, in our opinion, the two best because they have - to the best of our knowledge - the largest number of visitors.We think it's unrealistic to expect advertisers to respond to every inquiry. There are just too many.Finally, if you place an ad, you should state it without obscenities, with a facial photo but not that of your "private member," don't think they want to know your "size." Keep it clean and honest. Gross replies will turn off almost anyone you want to know; only the most desperate usually reply to that kind of ad response, email or snail-mail.And there's one more thing we can think of at this moment to consider: at least a few of those personals ads are by husbands whose wife doesn't even know they visit those sites, by dishonest degenerates and by a few who are curious and only investigating the possibility. If any of those reply, you're unlikely to ever find one who will personally meet with you.And - if you do set up a first meeting, make it at some "neutral" location, like a restaurant or coffee shop. experienced, reasonable people appreciate that because they realize you're allowing them to evaluate you and vice-versa.

Could you cuckold Me?

Some husbands encourage it. Some wives encourage their husbands to meet other women. It happens.

I had one and present and the sex is increditable no complaining at all, do our thing and go, since our half don't to have sex at all, we help each out,

do you really love your partner ?

Do not confuse love with sex

jaz said it right.... Now why would you be on this thread if you are asking that question?
Do you have an unsatisfied urge you want help with??

well i hopeto start one soon,,,john in colo

i have had a few of those as well one that has lasted nearly a year and it is truly the most wonderful sex i am not ashamed or embarrassed we both not what we want and it is so easy to be adventrous because he didint know what to expect from me ..i on the other hand have recently discovered i like to be spanked and dont care what anyone thinks sex is for being wild and getting in touch with yourself and without that intimacy you cant truly be you ... good luck