But I think it was google. I was searching something and it led to the site. I started looking around, and thought it looked pretty cool. Pretty soon "what's this site about?" turned into joining it and now here I am. I'm pretty much addicted now in some ways. But I'm also really glad I found it. It's private enough in a public way, that you can really learn to be open about yourself. And to explore your personality. And to evaluate people on different terms (like how well they live their life and what they think) instead of just certificates, bragging rights, looks and age. It's nice. It's unique. And I find it a great compliment to how I live my life.