A Very Liberating Beach Experience Indeed!I have been to a nudist beach because my girlfriend ‘double dared’ me. Funny…she went to though…without hesitation (no dare needed). Both of us had never been to one, but she had a biting curiosity that made me, for some reason, feel like she knew what was going on. When we get there, sure enough…buck naked and birthday-suited people going about their beachly business. A couple that was somewhat next to us, leaned over to get something out of their ice chest…I covered my eyes and looked away. This is when my girlfriend and I had a serious case of the ‘never done this before’ giggles. The funny thing is that we looked VERY out of place, as we were the only ones with clothes on. People were looking at us oddly. I never thought I would be put in the position of taking my clothes off to feel normal. Let me tell you, if you’ve never done this…you really should try it. Certain nudist beaches, I’m told are better then others in terms of the types of people that go there. For the most part, people just don’t give two tosses about the frivolity of clothes. Some do have ‘those kind of men’. However, they (according to regular nudists) are few and far between because most nudists (the purists) simply don’t want clothes and ‘are done with textiles’. They have long since gotten over that remedial thought that the body is just used for sex, or should be looked at with just that in mind. Personally, I found that liberating and really wanted to get my feet wet with the experience. I mean, imagine going in the waves with just your birthday suit, a smile and a warm breeze to invisibly wrap around your body. That sounds fantastic…playful and innocent really. To enjoy nature while being completely au naturale…fantastic!
Mrs. Brave Friend that dared me was still having trepidation about her bikini. I had taken off my mini skirt cover up and was about to do the top when a moment of pause came over me. However, once I pulled the string on my top left shoulder…the top was pretty much off. That was an adjustment. Pretty big adjustment I might add. The breeze felt different. Nervousness and a thought of ‘what the hell am I doing’ crossed my mind. I tried not to look around to see any eyes looking at me…a few gazes, but nothing to write home about. Next…the big time…the bikini bottoms (yikes and gulp). Let me tell you something. When you are in a crowd of people randomly scattered about and you are thinking of going fully NUDE, you will have some trepidation going through your head doing this for the first time. After a silent ‘gulp’ moment…one string pull….bottoms slipped to mid thighs. I thought, well, it’s pretty much a done deal now and quickly slipped them off as to not prolong the process. The beauty about being at the beach is that you can quickly lay down and voila…half your body is covered up really. My friend was having some second thoughts…couldn’t BELIEVE IT…Mrs. Giving Me Crap About How I Would Chicken Out (honestly!). She had part of her top off (not really though) and her bottoms were glued on her. Those thighs were snugging those bottoms like their life depended on it! When I was laying down looking up at her, I just turned away so she could acclimate herself (on her damn dare I might add!).
When I laid down on my tummy and just felt the breeze and heard those muffled sounds of the waves and random voices enjoying themselves on a sunny day, it was euphoric kind of. Personally…it felt amazing…really, really amazing! There was something so incredible about how that felt, it really left an impression on me. I could go on a spiritual thing, because it got that way for me. There wasn’t that sex stuff, or feeling like…‘is everyone looking at me’. It was like I was in my own little world. My hands sort of played with the warm sand, my butt felt great just being out in the open having that summer breeze kiss it here and there. Great stuff. Also, once the nervousness subsides it was quite peaceful, and if I may say…innocent really. We were born this way, then the clothes came. There is something to be said about just being totally natural and feeling that yummy warm summer air all over you, while your hands and feet feel the comforting soft sand. If you’re daring, and have never done this before. Find a reputable beach and just go for it. You will be amazed at how you feel and maybe learn a few things about yourself. I personally became far less concerned about being nude out in the open. It seemed to make complete sense to me, as this is how we are made. Loved it! Also, going in the ocean naked is probably one of the best things to feel. When you come out and lay on your towel nude and wet, waiting for the sun to naturally dry you…it’s not only liberating, it just feels very, very right. This is how it’s supposed to be really.
It’s an interesting thought, that actually textiles have made us sexualize the body more. When it’s out in the open and seen all the time, it just becomes no big deal. I’ve only done this a few other times, however I really can’t put a price on how that made me feel. I highly recommend at least trying it once in your lifetime.
growwhereyouglow 36-40, F 18 Responses 21 Jun 8, 2012