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Oh My Goodness!!

i feel so...strange right now! first of all, a difference in age has been a very typical thing in my love life. up until recently, most of the guys i have dated have been younger than me. two of them by 11 years. somehow i have almost always ended up with younger guys, whether by a little, or a lot. but a couple of years ago i fell in love with a professor of mine. he was about 20 years older than me. he was gay, and nothing came of it romantically, but it did sort of put men of that age rage on my radar, if you will. about a year later i tried dating an older guy...it was casual, and didn't last long, but i sort of appreciated the experience in terms of satisfying my curiosity.
but anyway, 2 or 3 weeks ago i was at this event.. i met an older guy there and we got to talking. we got along so well that we decided to go out for drinks after. i really didn't think much of it at first, but we've seen eachother a few times since, and talk on the phone every day..i'm really starting to like him. it scares me for a lot of reasons, not the least of which is him being 20 years older than me... yikes!
we kissed for the first time last night. ^.^ it was really nice. he sucked my tongue, too! lol--if you read my other story you know that's a good thing. hmmm
sneakygirl1 sneakygirl1 36-40, F 14 Responses Feb 21, 2012

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Hi Sneaky, I, being married to a younger partner, am all for it. My wife is 18 years younger than me but we get along extremely well. It helps that we have a lot of similar interests, she's a painter, I'm a musician. Anyhow, I think older men finally learn how to treat a woman by the time we get into our 40s, slow learners. Now I have to read your other story you mentioned...good salesperson!

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I've always been told I'm handsome, but since growing a silver fox Kenny Rogers style beard & wearing cowboy hats, the number of trendy young women who smile & compliment me is amazing<br />
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I just today got a red T shirt, emblazoned World's Greatest Athletes, with pix of Thor, Iron Man, Capt America & Hulk, suitably captioned<br />
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ACE reactions,especially with cool shades complketing the look<br />
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I'll hit Ormskirk, Skelmersdale & Wigan on Thurs ...

35 years difference! LOVE IT

wow-- are you the older or the younger?

Hmmm, I'm the older guy. Love women of your age........betwixt and between. More entertaining of women my age and more experienced than younger ones. I tend towards women like you. And you're hot.

heehee..well, thank you! :)

I'd LOVE to flirt with such a lovely young lady<br />
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Lemme say upfront that, tho I'm 64, I go to gym 4 times a week & often go on 90-mins walks - like the beautiful walk home from http://www.LiverpoolOneChurch.com<br />
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& each time I go clubbing, I'm the only guy dancing with big circles of teens/20s/30s girls - who love being photo'd with me & trying on my cowboy hat<br />
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I also go to 3 weekly discussion groups of http://www.thereader.org.uk <br />
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& 1/2/3 weekly karaokes. rehearsing for The Voice 2013<br />
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& make good use of Cineworld Unlimited Cinema Card<br />
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& may well invest in AGT Card - viable in nearly all UK theatres<br />
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As for eclectic tastes & interests, I won EP Prolific Author Trophy in just 5 days<br />
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Ever visit Liverpool, Manchester, Chester or Southport?<br />
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How @ Preston or Blackpool?<br />
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Google northwestscene & say what grabs ya, OK?<br />
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OH: Mr Versatile: Man Of 1000 Voices plans 2 hit albums & 2 hit world tours, 2014/15<br />
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Where is ya nearest big city?<br />
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3 fascinating experiences to share<br />
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1 - @ age 21, I dated a 27-yr-old for several months, that only ended when she moved 250 miles away with her job<br />
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She was the cousin of the 1st girl I ever fell for - when we were both 7/8<br />
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& we met @ Barb's wedding: she was half Navajo & VERY artistic<br />
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2 - I'll be 65 in 6 months & any time I go clubbing, I get dancing with large circles of teens/20s girls who love having photos done with me in my cowboy hat<br />
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& trying my hat on<br />
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3 - A good pal, @ age 75, wed a 31-yr-old<br />
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They just had their 2nd anniversary & are one of the most loving couples you could ever meet - as well as being genuine best best pals

wow- 75 and 31? interesting. cool, too! good for them. :)

I am 37 years old. I am surrounded by beautiful people as a result of my profession and lifestyle. Currently I am highly infatuated with a couple of 22 year olds...and the girls love my attention, they more then illingly play along. I recently discovered a strong attraction to a woman in her mid to early fifties, and another woman who is sixty.<br />
Which begs the question...<br />
What is the source of attraction?<br />
Many factors go into attraction...age may not be one of the more prominent ones.<br />
At least for me.<br />
I find many varied beauties within women...each woman I meet seem to have their own personal and unique trait (s) of beauty. It woud be nice if they understood that!<br />
Just saying.

hm..intriguing- what kind of work do you do? if you care to say.. :)
anyway, nice post. i definately agree with you! sexy is definately not about a number, and there are so many ways .a person can be attractive.
glad to hear you can appreciate a beautiful woman, regardless of her age, too. ^.^

I was 20yo back then. He told me he was 21, and broke up after two weeks, after knowing he was like 17-18yo.<br />
With an older guy. . . 14 yrs different (was the best one).

I used to be attracted to older women but, without really noticing it, I overtook them. I suspect that this is something which happens to men more than women and is just another of nature's many little cruelties. Anyway, enjoy yourself and if you don't like it, stop. (Sounds easy, doesn't it?)

wait a sec-- what do you mean 'overtook them'?

I mean that 38 year old women are no longer older than me.

oh- i see. but why cruel? many women like older men, if that's what you mean. :)

BG, who is 108, says that younger women find him attractive. That doesn't happen to 108 year old women.

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my wife's only 3 years younger than me, but when I was 31 I dated an 18-yr-old. she needed a way out of a bad home situation and latched onto me, and I needed to rescue someone (again - still hadn't learned my lesson) so it worked out fine. I ended up supporting her for 2 years and helping her get into university, then dumped her because I was clearly getting in her way.

hm, sounds like your experience was bittersweet at best? i hear you--i've definately had my share of 'learning relationships'...lol. part of the journey, i suppose. glad you ended up finding someone to be happy with!

ya, bittersweet is right. I left because I felt it was the right thing to do, not because I didn't care for her. I'd still go pretty far out of my way to make sure she's alright, though I have a kid now so I can't risk as much as I used to. (lol plus the wife would never understand)

thats kool everyone needs a person like that in their life

I was when around 20 having relations with people the same age then I turned 21 and got with someone yrs older than me. Unfortunately she was a junkie and played me for ten years. Although we had 2 kids together,both boys I had to leave her. 1yr later I started goin out with someone who is ten years younger. The younger woman seem to want more than older woman and just because they are growing up so to speak and finding their way, where as an older woman usually has all the things she needs and just wants a good healthy relationship. The only problem I see about age gaps is when death knocks on the door for the older one and the younger ones have to grive longer. thats about it I suppose.

yes! i have to admit i've thought of that more than once. especially since i am thinking in 'spending the rest of my life' terms at this point. on the plus side, his mother lived into her 90's and his father is still alive. :D

really? that's good to hear. well, we'll see what happens. this is definately new territory in my little world. the truth is, this difference is the most obvious one, but not the only one!