I Deserved To Loose My Child At 15

I lost my daughter 3 weeks ago , I was 5 months into the pregnancy and today I finally opened up about it and someone said " You deserved to loose that child because you were idiotic enough to open your legs up at 15 , you never deserved her " and now I can't even begin to explain how I feel .
RIPJaylie RIPJaylie
18-21, F
2 Responses Dec 11, 2012

You poor thing. For someone to say that to a person that is bound to be vulnerable and fragile at this moment in time, it just sickens me. I know this isn't quite the same for me but a few years back now, my mum lost little baby Vinnie at around the same time and it crushed us completely. We had support. I can't even begin to imagine what that comment did to you and I just hope you can realise that you are obviously a far better person then they will ever be. Please feel free to talk anytime, I know there's plenty of people here that would do the same. :)

I'm really sorry that somebody said that to you. You shouldn't listen to it. But it doesn't stop from hurting you... You need some time. To let go. It will be hard, but you are young and deserve to live your life to the fullest. If you need to talk I'm here for you :)

I know I shouldn't listen to it , but it still gets to me . But thank you so much and I'll remember that .

Yeas I know. That's why you need to hear positive things that will outshine the bad words :)