After All Its My Life

Life is short...
Dont allow any one ( not even your closest one) to make decisions for you.
Don't allow anyone to interfer in your lifetime goals...in your career planning.
Don't hear anyone, untill you feel yourself satisfy & positive about the thing that you wana do.
Don't sit with those who discourage you from accepting challenges , from taking risk in life.
Don't do anything in life that only gives you temporary satisfaction & lifetime suffering.
Don't follow jus a short way to climb, but try the long way to fly with flying colors.
sanasafinaz sanasafinaz
26-30, F
7 Responses Jul 13, 2010

may Allah always and always help you and all of us , in making right decisions for life , which are good and for the betterment of our lifetime. Ameen !

this is really very true<br />
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i learned this after having soo much loss of my life<br />
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dnt knw may be it was better for me still i regret coz it wasnt my decisions<br />
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now am taking all decisions my own <br />
leaving no room for regret atleast good or bad am following what i feel is right<br />
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ok last thing u said is not do for short satisfaction<br />
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i am not sure if at this point am taking right decision but just happy even if its bad i ll not make this feel to anyone<br />
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may Allah swt ever help me and turn me to take right decisions

hi``Somexyz..........thnxx 4 liking it:)

I like 4 & 6 points. Thanks for writing them down.

Hi aces4battle........thnx for ur comment, well am her to clear ur doubts abt my story .Frst , I said dont allow any one to make decision for you means;'' dont allow yourself to take that route wht you havn't decided but someone has decided for you, that someone want you to go . Moreover, dont completly agree on somebody's decision untill you also like to do .....OKAY fine listen everyone points , but dont jump on sombebdy's decision immediately....jus think b4 u leap..............hmmm & my second point is; ''dont choose temporary satisfaction'' means; its really hell!!! trust me, jus for the time being you stay happy...jus for the lil while .. but thn that thing made u sad for long time period is excruciating....for instance, whn I was 20 years , I gave up studies , jus because I couldn't get admission in my medical college, thn my father push me to apply in airline as an airhostess, as at that time I was so mad & out of my mind, I dint think jus once how much EDUCATION was always important to me, how much i always wanted to be well-educated....but, thn I jus listened to my father's bad decision for my career & I JUMP on his decision & applied in airline & after some time I got a call & gave my studies & started working.At that time I was so much happy.Happy as being working girl in so early stage ....but, I was unabl to see the darker side, that after sumtyme whn all my frnd would be holding degrees & cirtificates, they will hav good future , I would be jus 12th grade passed, how would I face them? ashame...I was earning but i was lossing my education time period.So, i guess that was all jus a temporary satisfaction , that am suffering now alot & now m trying to get my degrees & studying back.

How could I forget making one's own decisions on my list?! (I suppose that happens when you post stories when you're tired, haha.) ... in fact, is THAT on the list?? *runs to update story*<br />
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Thanks for commenting! (=

Thank you for expressing your ideas of guide to handle life is short. I am having a problem with two points, but will take your advise. I allow any and all person to make decisions for me, when I have nothing better to do, or direction to go. This way I am open to new challenges and see what direction I go from someone else's decision. Who know, it may be nice.<br />
The other is temporary satisfaction & lifetime suffering. I love to do temporfary satisfaction, cause I do not plain much beyond three months or so. Unfortunately, some temp. satisfaction I realize COULD easily lead to lifetime suffering, and that worries me to today.