Well I Kinda Wanted To Know This Too...

You Have a PHLEGMATIC Temperament

Mild mannered and laid back, you take life at a slow pace.
You are very consistent - both in emotions and actions.
You tend to absorb set backs easily. You are cool and collected.

It is difficult to offend you. You can remain composed and unemotional.
You are a great friend and lover. You don't demand much of others.
While you are quiet, you have a subtle wit that your friends know well.

At your worst, you are lazy and unwilling to work at anything.
You often get stuck in a rut, without aspirations or dreams.
You can get too dependent on others, setting yourself up for abandonment.


A phelly-what????!

Ok my turn to pick away at my phellybellyness!

1) I AM laid back I AM relaxed. Yes I DO take like at a slow pace. I think that is a good thing. I try not to get TOO caught up in all the little dramas. I know they make the world go round but they kinda can end up seriously stressing you out too.

2) I AM consistant. But only in regards to actions/thoughts/beliefs. I have my ideas about what I want to believe in. I like to treat people how I want to be treated. BUT I really reaally am not consistant when it comes to emotion. I would not say I was emotionally unstable no no no. Just, that I am a very emotional creature. Sometimes wondering if i might be a bit hypersensitive to some things that people say or the way that they act. It doesnt take much to make me cry (in an argument) and I will generally much rather back down than end up in a confrontation with someone. -If it saves the shouting and screaming and abuse.

3) I DONT absorb set backs easily. In fact it can somtimes set me back even further. But it doesnt knock me completely off balance because I know that there is always another day and I am surrounded by people who I love and cherish.

4) I caaan be cool and collected. Sometimes! It really depends on the situation. I remember when I was at college I was reaaally cool and collected. I was a bit of an alpha in the friend circle and maybe a little wild. I wish in someways I still was..

5) I have to laugh at the next point. You CAN offend me. Probably more easily than most people. I've already mentioned that I can get easily upset by things. I know Im beginning to sound more and more emo by the second but I promise Im not going to get the eyeliner out just yet.. I am only composed and unemotional if whatever conflict is not aimed directly at me. It seem to miss 'pressing me buttons' and setting me off. I go into 'problem solving mode'. Its like an over-ride feature ;)

6) Now. OF COURSE i would like to think of myself as a good friend and lover. So, not going to diagree with that one *tehe*. I certainly approve of the theory that you give and recieve in a friendship. That you should not take people for granted and that as a lover, you support your partner through and through.

7) I cant be quiet. Sometimes. I can be loud other times. Im sure it is like a lot of people, it really depends on who you are with. Needless to say, I was immensily shy when i was younger. Im sorta giving myself a kick up the *** about it now. You really do just have to push yourself and you eventually overcome obstacles. Slow process!

8) I have a good sense of humor!

9) I can be lazy. I am a procrastinator. Im not proud of it, but I am not in denial either. It is something that is proving very hard to kick the habit of.

10) I AM stuck in a rut.

11) I AM a bit too dependent on my parents. I am hoping when I find a full time job, that can change though. I would love to move in with my bf :)

JulySunSoul JulySunSoul
26-30, F
Jul 13, 2010