I Like The Idea Of This Group

It's really interesting discovering what turns people on. And how it changes. I think back at what has turned me on over the years and it has changed... as often as my favourite breakfast food! Sexuality is so broad, multi-faceted and flexible (and that's just mine). There is always something new to discover. It can also be very personal, something that takes a certain amount of bravery to let go.

Lately, it is my wifes growing pleasure in her own body that turns me on, and there are many dimensions to that!
2xRocks 2xRocks
36-40, M
1 Response Jul 11, 2010

Anything and everything that seems completely wrong gets me off. The sicker the better, but I feel sickened by the things that turn me on to the point that I don't care to go there. A hug is better.. It feels more real. Normal stuff doesn't turn me on. I think it is because of watching **** on the internet when I first went through puberty. Most of my fantasies are things I would never act out or want to act out in real life. I openly talked with my husband about several fantasies. He shared at least one, but is hurt by the fact that I have to be in another world when having sex to get off. I honestly don't think it matters who I am with. I don't know how to be normal. I don't think pure thoughts can help me sexually.