Getting "Hit on by Men"

I go out quite a bit as Jennifer, and seem to pass as a woman pretty well. Let me say first of all, I am streight as an arrow, however I do find it flattering and a bit exciting as well when a guy hits on me. I have never met one that I had even the slightest bit of interest in and don't expect to. To me when a guy hits on me it is the greatest complement he could give me. I know some gurls like me who get offended when a guy hits on them but I must confess I love it, I get that "I must be doing something right feeling". Let me add, I welcome comments pro or con from anyyone who wishes to do so, on anything I post.

jennifergurl jennifergurl
51-55
10 Responses Mar 8, 2009

Passing is an amazing thing! I know that when one doesn't pass, they feel down on themselves and have horrid thoughts. You just keep up being the woman you are and don't let ANYONE hold you down. And I'd like to add that you look JUST LIKE my best friend!

Lori TG<br />
Pictures don't always do justice. I have seen women that look like men and I have seen men (who are not trying) look like women. I personally do not think I can pass but I had a woman come to me and ask if I was a real woman. As soon as I spoke she got her answer. She said I did a very nice job and she was fooled. The lighting, the clothes, mannerisms and everything else helped. So, before you condemn this woman for not passing, watch people on the street as there are a lot of people that aren't as critical as you. And, there are CD admirers that will try, so she did pass in their eyes. I thought we as crossdressers were to support one another. But you condemn without even knowing the person or where she was at when she got propositioned. SHAME ON YOU...SHAME!!!<br />
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Jennifer, you hold your head up high and don't pay any attention to the naysayers...I think you look pretty. I think Lori is just jealous of you.<br />
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I know when a good looking woman comes in a lot of people will only look from the breasts down. In that case Lori, you could even pass.

Dear Jen- I agree with you 100 per cent. If your going to dress and a man hits on you. Then your doing something right. Really getting a compliment doesn't mean you have to go to bed. How many women get hit on and just ignore the guy. If a guy thinks I'm a woman then I've passed and its a memory I can live with.

Dear Jennifergurl, I'm solina. I'm a transwoman. I was a girl sincve I was 5 or 6. What I mean I was fminine in the mind since then. I know am 1/2 female..H HA I cant finish the job. But anyway. HOney, if you like for men to hit on you then I think you are kidding yourself. If a man hits on me I first think fo him in bed with me. I'm willing to bet you that deep down you have had the same thought too. Please be honest with yourself.You dont have to tell anyone else. Just you....I will listen if you want to talk to me. I'm a good listener. But I forget real easy. Oh one last thing. I'm still a virgin. But I'm going to change that as soon as I meet the right person. male or female....Solina

Ya and you pass Frankenstein?

Excuse me are you jealous of Jeniffer. do you get of on putting other people down? Who is the perfect mould for being a woman that we all have to aspire to be perfect there are 5 billion women on the planet which one is perfect. WE ALL HAVE OUR OWN LOOK JUST LIKE EVERY GG OUT THERE AND BEAUTY IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER NOT YOU NOR I . Samantha

Never got the whole cross dressing thing I guess it's a fetish or you have gender dysmorphia. I would like to be able to dress in spandex more though and wear wild hair colors etc. I'm fine being a man though I like the body I have I don't want to look like a woman I just wish I could decorate up what I DO have more.

Type your comment here.Any woman would like the attentions of a man, especially if he is a nice man. I think your feelings are naturally feminine. Go for it....

You know I feel like if that is what you like then do it. I have gay friends who dress like woman so I think just because your straight and you do it I shouldn't have a negative feeling towards you. If you need any make-up tips feel free to ask. I mean as a woman I would love any man who can give me tips on an outfit!!!

2 each there own !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!