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What Do You Do?

 

What do you do when all you want to do is touch her cheek and run your fingers through her hair but you can’t because of the distance between you and your current circumstances?

What do you do when the time you do spend together flies by and the time apart drags forever?

What do you do when you long to see her lips speaking words of love but can only talk by phone?

What do you do when you wake up alone and then remember what it was like to wake up together?

What do you do when you crave the simplest of things like holding her hand?

What do you do when all you want to do is be with her all of the time but it is a light at the end of the tunnel that is so distant, it is hard to see it getting closer.

What do you do when you miss her so much that your chest is tight and there is a pain in your heart?

What do you do when you miss her so much you find yourself at times shaking and crying uncontrollably

What do you do when you are dreaming of her and you wake up and realize she's not there?

 

What would you do?

bassplayer bassplayer 46-50, M 23 Responses Sep 18, 2008

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Thank you for the kind words Teri :)

I've found that the more time we spend together the more difficult it gets. It's only been a week since I last saw her. Seems like forever. We do absolutely everything to stay in touch. It's just not the same. Not by a long shot.

I've found that the more time we spend together the more difficult it gets. It's only been a week since I last saw her. Seems like forever. We do absolutely everything to stay in touch. It's just not the same. Not by a long shot.

I'm counting on a lifetime Princess :)

Having you in my life Jess.....I sleep in my helmet now :P

I'll do that Jess :)<br />
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I'm not sure who wins for whining between me and Sugar Snow-lol

snowy: I got news for you honey, I feel the pain of missing you on the same level as bass' pain every single day, and it is pretty constant, actually - probably just as much as you, if not more...<br />
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However...<br />
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I try my best to focus on what I have to do and how I and we plan to work on the next step...<br />
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It is very normal to feel impatient..just ask Marcus101...lol. Seriously, I do understand I think I get that way more often than he does :)

So true SB. WE both have tons of faith and are looking to the future. I think it's normal to feel a little impatient. As the time get's closer, I think things will get easier.

This is a beautiful post Bass and so 'mush bucket' as well. I can actually relate to this very much. What you gotta do is KNOW that this will happen for you, you may not have an exact date yet but I think when you know things are truly right in your heart, you have the faith to forge on and work towards those goals. It doesnt mean it is easy it just means you do everything you can to work towards your goals together :)

I love you baby.

I'll need therapy if I have to wait that long. It's so impressive that you were able to do this.

I had to wait 18 months for my dream to be a reality, I don't know how we did it but it's done and over with now and he's tight here with me now..<br />
We talked constantly on the phone & computer, I ha pizza's delivered for him, we send cards back and forth and did everything to stay connected. Then one day it was all over, so just hang in there it will one day be the past an you will never forget being without her and it will serve as a fine reminder to keep the ones you love close and never take for granted that they exist and that you love them..

Thanks everyone.<br />
J4P....I am hanging in just as you are. It is so difficult at times.....but I know without a doubt that she is worth any struggle that I might have to endure.

What do you do? It depends. I just sit and wait for my daughter to tell me if mommy is ok and if she ever talks about daddy. That is as close as I get to relieving the pain. Excellent piece BTW. Good job

awwww. hugs!! i can totally relate. all i can say is that modern technology makes it easier, but it sucks. making plans and setting goals will help the time go faster....skype is my best friend:)

lol

What an excellent answer LTD. You are absolutely right.<br />
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Thanks Mello, we do all of that too. Thanks Magic, next week :)

you rejoice that you have her at all.

Hope you get to see her soon, bass man.

No.... it doesn't... :(<br />
Usually I do suck it up. Sometimes as it did last night, it got a little overwhelming. I knew she'd slam me back to earth-lol

Thanks R.C.<br />
Maybe I'll wander over to priceline right now.....

You do what you need to Bass. You suck it up and deal.<br />
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You have patience and know that one day you will reach that light... as far away as it seems right now.<br />
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Then you go online and book a plane ticket. LOL