My First Real Love

My first real love was Paul Sidel. It was the summer of 1999 in Las Vegas, Nevada, I had just come out and I was at the Flex. A great local gay bar in its day. As I sat there having my favorite drink, Cape Cod, this cute guy sitting next to me was smoking like a chimney. I reached over and grabbed his cigarettes and refused to give them back to him. Eventually I gave in and gave him one cigarette every 30 minutes. In that time we talked and laughed and got to know each other. At the end of the night he dropped me off at home and then we went out to a movie the following Monday. With in a week we decided to move in with each other and he wanted to go to Texas with a couple of his friends who were going there to get married he thought that it would be great to have a double ceremony. them and he and I. I was so excited and in love I couldn't say no. We didn't go to Texas but we got a place of our own and things were pretty good until my ex wife. Lisa V. Evans-Sibley and that is how I LOST my FIRST real love