Register

I Want To Know Your List Of 10 Things You Look For In A Lover

My Best (bet) Of 10 In A Lover.

By: ladyryan
Written on May 21st, 2012
By: ladyryan
Age: 41-45 , Female
477 people have read this story

Your Response

By clicking "Post", you confirm that you agree to the Terms of Service of Experience Project, Inc.
41 responses
  • rw5453

    Sounds like more a spouse requirment list than for lovers, but then being a good lover should be a requirement for being a spouse

    Jan 26
    2 likes
    • ladyryan

      Aww-w-w Wouldn't it be great to fall to such a man/husband.

      Jan 31
      1 like
  • CrazyWaterSpring

    There are a lot of guys who meet all conditions and definitely consider themselves lucky to know you. You could offer and exchange in regard to question six. English is a difficult language. So is Japanese. Tagalog is a useful language too.

    Nov 27, 2012
    2 likes
    • ladyryan

      Aww, CWS. . . You're such a dandy.^^thanks for the thumbs up. I should have taught my kids Tagalog. I'm sure it'll be fun and crazy.=)~

      Nov 29, 2012
      1 like
  • holloway64

    that's a pretty good list. Nothing outrageous.

    Nov 25, 2012
    2 likes
    • ladyryan

      Well, sure it is. Thanks. I should have added something from a really personal aspect. But then will wait for the "Top 11 list" to come out and would write about that extra 11th. **wink**

      Nov 27, 2012
      1 like
  • Pmacphoto

    Lets see
    #1... Has to be intelligent and knowledgable about a wide variety of subjects.
    #2...Have a good personality and have a positive attitude and outlook.
    #3...Not sloppy looking or slouchy
    #4...Good hygiene
    #5...Does not have to be beautiful, not bbw not skin and bones/
    #6...Enjoys just being with me, holding hands, kissing and cuddling.
    #7...Open minded about sex, enjoys learning new things and adventurous.
    #8...Trustworthy, supportive
    #9...Enjoys nature and the beauty all around us.
    #10,Must enjoy listening to Yanni

    Oct 21, 2012
    2 likes
    • ladyryan

      Nice ten list. I surely would agree to all. But who's Yanni?^^

      Oct 24, 2012
      1 like
    • Pmacphoto

      He is a composer, musician, conductor and has his own orchestra. He plays all over the world, just look him up.

      Oct 24, 2012
      1 like
  • FotoBuff

    Well done, Ladyryan. I remember long ago about paying attention to 'red flags' in a relationship. I admire those who stick to their standards. I made a list of 15 personality traits or characteristics that I was looking for in a mate. My wife met just about every one of them. Since then because of her, I've learned about art and cooking, among other things. She learned from me as well; golf, tennis & skiing. We count our blessings.

    Sep 18, 2012
    2 likes
    • ladyryan

      Thanks FotBuff, that was quite nice to know about you. Thanks for sharing them here. You mean, you've posted that list somewhere ? Would be glad to read it also.^^

      Sep 18, 2012
      1 like
  • OmyTVC15

    Good list. I don't think I could have come up with ten but your list was good.

    Sep 18, 2012
    2 likes
    • ladyryan

      Aww-w-w I know you have one up there, hidden somewhere all this years. he he

      Sep 18, 2012
      1 like
    • OmyTVC15

      I used to have a list of people before I met Stacy but not a very long list of what I was looking for. The few things I was looking for she had. I laid all my cards on the table on our second date and things took off from there.

      Sep 18, 2012
      1 like
  • ShyButCreativeSexyGuy

    T misquote Meat Loaf, 8 Outa 10 Aint Bad



    KIds?



    Like 'em OK



    But couldn't eat a whole one



    Hate violence



    I'm ex-champ MMA teamster, ex-security (posted solely @ sites under terrorist threat)



    My older cousins were a Colonel, a Wing Commander & a Navy Commander



    & any time Isreal's in danger, I recruit openly online for the best paid & most efficient on Earth



    Mossad



    Watch Munich free online



    Wiki search, Operatioin Wrath Of God



    OH: had my life threatened @ 7 yrs ago for exposing Islam online so often



    When @ 8-9 thugs threw stones @ me, I yelled - in a pedestrian tunnel, right opp the big cop shop, "If ya think ya hard enuff, try it: COME ON



    Mad?



    Bad?



    Dangerous to know?



    Too much man for ya?

    Jul 1, 2012
    3 likes
    • ladyryan

      Umm yah. I just thought if that would mean "shy" in your world, then I wouldn't wonder about the opposite of a guy.
      ^-^

      Jul 1, 2012
      1 like
    • ShyButCreativeSexyGuy

      Glad ya aint smitten, hon

      Aint easy to be a widow

      Ya better with several other replies

      I know I'm not worthy

      (Does Shrek impression, tryin to keep face straight for camera 3)

      LOL

      Btw

      I have my criteria too

      But how many women think life is all about 'me & my feelings'?

      Not shy to point interested female readers to my early joky post @ da HUGEST fetish combo

      & asking, "Who's got it all?"

      No rfeply @ 2/3 days later

      So added, "OK .. OK .. who's got a fait few?"

      4/5 days later, still no takers

      No Country For Macho Neanderthal Knuckle Draggers: The Prequel Sequel?

      Got a banana, lady?

      ROFL

      I tell ya truly, I've lived solo @ 12 years now

      & I have a whale of a time

      In the last word of great Scots hero , William Wallace ...

      F=R=E=E=D=O=M !!!!

      I go to gym 4 times a week, & 3 weekly discussion groups of http://www.thereader.org.uk

      & make good use of Cineworld Unlimited Cinema Card

      &, when not full of cold, as I am now, the highlights of my always-adventurous week are Sunday

      10.30am @ http://www.ElimBootle.com

      Or 11am @ http://kcf.org.uk

      6pm @ http://www.LiverpoolOneChurch.com

      &some Saturday events @ http://www.frontline.org.uk

      & 1/2/3 karaokes a week, to rehearse for The Voice 2013

      Aiming for 2 hit albums & 2 hit tours in 2 yrs

      Why?

      2015 is 50 yr after I got my first guitar

      The overnight success that took 50 yrs sure tickles my funny bone

      Why say all that?
      I still seek my ideal soiulmate

      & relationship experts recommend max compatibility for best chance of long term success

      If I were a gambler, I'd lay odds that all the clowns who claim 10 outa 10 are blufing

      Am I right?
      Whether or not I turn out to be your secret lifelong dream, I value ya friendshop

      Value mine?

      Jul 1, 2012
      1 like
    • ladyryan

      Oh sure, would like to know you better from your stories. Thanks for a wnderful comment. Very honest and unique I mean loaded ha ha

      Jul 1, 2012
      1 like
  • PokuletZ78

    I think it's a decent list... I've checked from one to nine and want to see if I can qualify for the tenth. What do you say?! :P

    Jun 19, 2012
    3 likes
    • ladyryan

      LOL! Guess would have to read your Profile first. =)) Or should I take the chance.=P

      Jun 19, 2012
      1 like
    • PokuletZ78

      You should! :P Just kidding...

      Jun 19, 2012
      1 like
  • nnimbuss

    I guess you do not make conditions, you get to know and explore each other. There has got to be give and take all the time.

    May 27, 2012
    3 likes
    • ladyryan

      Oh yess-s-s!!! Totally agree. I lay my cards, show me yours, as we do the tango.^^ Thanks Nnimbus. So nice of you to write in. (^-^)

      May 27, 2012
      1 like
    • nnimbuss

      I adore women, I respect women, I like her to be an angelic devil in bed. I love to fly and do stunts for joy. I love ling walks, I would not make preconditions about anything that matters, just flow along and explore the mystery.

      May 27, 2012
      1 like
    • nnimbuss

      And yes, I got 2 left feet but can learn if have the inclination! Like to dance?

      May 27, 2012
      1 like
    • ladyryan

      And I have 2right feet to got with yours. teehee^^ Shall we?

      May 30, 2012
      1 like
    1 More Reply
  • dilfek2010

    I will go in reverse... he he.. kidding... how many of those you find in me.. ofcourse some of them you have not tested, but you can take a wild guess on those

    May 23, 2012
    3 likes
    • ladyryan

      LOL you are a spot-on as always. **smiles**

      May 23, 2012
      1 like
    • dilfek2010

      you mean to say 10 out of 10.

      May 23, 2012
      1 like
  • studioh

    Well written. I wish more people had your lack of command of the english language. Many people that claim English as their language can neither speak it nor write it. I couldn't help but notice that you never mention appearance as one of your ten priorities. Character, intelligence and attitude are more important than physical beauty?

    May 22, 2012
    3 likes
    • ladyryan

      Yes ofcourse. weee-e-e!! Thanks for commenting.^^

      May 22, 2012
      1 like
  • WildeOscar

    Oral floss? Hmmm. I was so close. Actually, oral hygiene is my finest quality, some say.



    You have a delightful playful nature and a sensible manner about you. Highly likable. If I can get away with pretending that maybe it was a spelling error, highly lickable.

    May 21, 2012
    4 likes
    • ladyryan

      Oh my, am so jammed up. I can't find my car keys for how long and finally got on the wheel, hit the road when I saw this thru iphone, and believe me. . . You have just made my day! Honestly I wouldn't know what I'd do without you Guys, you ROCK my world!!!^^ LOL to myself. And just reading "oral hygiene is my finest quality" now makes me drool. U R Lovable!!^^

      May 21, 2012
      1 like
  • Ghauzy

    Oh lady! I was hoping so much but matched only 8 out of 10. I failed on number 8, but I can probably learn and enjoy it. However, I also failed on number 5. People who know me face to face swear that I'm extremely boring and humorless. This is one that is tough to learn. }:-P

    May 21, 2012
    3 likes
    • ladyryan

      My oh my, you are just wonderful as you are. Don't take those lists against you. Those are only ten. You have more beautiful things inside than those for sure. Thanks Ghauzy. **hugs**

      May 21, 2012
      1 like
  • emce

    Well, I easily qualify on all counts, but that number 7 could be a problem at my age, unless you're talking about grandchildren LOL. Of course, at my age you'd probably view me more as a father figure than husband material anyway!! :-)



    Oh well... now, if I was just 20 years younger...

    May 21, 2012
    3 likes
    • ladyryan

      Yay! You are always prove to be a sweet man. Thanks.

      May 21, 2012
      1 like
  • Gyummy

    Damn, I'm perfect! lol You write with perfect command of the English language!

    May 21, 2012
    3 likes
    • ladyryan

      Damn, you're good! teehee^^

      May 21, 2012
      1 like
  • Dragon56

    Great list...and I believe I qualify on all counts! ;)

    May 21, 2012
    3 likes
    • ladyryan

      Yay!! And (wow) that's great to know!

      May 21, 2012
      1 like