Top PrioritiesFirst and foremost, sexual attraction and chemistry. He could have everything else, but without this, there is nothing but friendship.
Second, monogamy. I alone, must be a enough to keep him satisfied.
Thirdly, trustworthiness. I have to trust him implicitly before I can even consider getting naked with him.
Fourth, respect. There must be mutual respect....no respect, no sex.
Fifth, generosity and patience. I want a man with a slow hand who enjoys pleasing me.
Sixth, skill and stamina. I want to enjoy my lover, not school him or hurt him.
Seventh, playfulness & humor. I don't want to take sex too seriously...it's supposed to be fun, and sometimes it's just plain funny. It's okay to laugh. :D
Eight, potential. I want to know there is potential to move the relationship forward...beyond sex.
Ninth, communication. If we're having sex, we must be able to talk about sex and anything else.
And finally, number ten, Love. I don't have to be in love to enjoy sex...but it's much more pleasurable when my heart is as vested as my body.