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Top Things I Want In A Relationship

Okay, so this is more than 10 things, but over the years, I've compiled the things I want in my ideal they are!

1. Sharing our passions and honoring them even though they may not be the same passions

2. Passionate about our relationship

3. Places importance on parenting

4. Emotional freedom to be truthful in all areas of my life with my mate and not feel that I’m being judged

5. Always acts in integrity

6. Tells me what’s going on rather than wants me to second-guess.

7. Soul level relationship

8. To share in our path toward personal growth

9. Relationship where we can touch spirits

10. We are doing romantic things for each other even after the initial dating period

11. Mutual love for each other

12. A lot of touching, kissing and lovemaking

13. Mutual desire to spend time with each other

14. Trust in each other such that we can share everything

15. Shared long term vision


17. Laugh together

18. Support each other when things aren’t so great

19. Travel together

20. To be the champion for each other’s dreams

21. To have my partner be the last person I want to see when I go to sleep and the first person I want to see when I wake up

22. To give my partner enough space and have enough space to allow for our own personal growth

23. Emotionally available


dawinla dawinla 56-60, M 11 Responses Oct 1, 2012

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Great list! Please feel free to check out mine. It's a little bit long, but I think it represents me well.

Lovely. Thank you for this list. It says a lot about you. And # 24? Something about being invisible? LOL. Kissesssssssssssssssssssss....A Californian? Figures. Something about those who live in the sun. I lived in Texas for a few years. The sun makes everything more clear. :)

Thank you for the kind words!
#24 is the thing that has yet to be determined :)

Just remember that it takes two to make a relationship to work. Giving as much if not more then receiving.

What seems like giving more then receiving can easy be read by your partner as receiving less then I give........Relationships are the bonding of two souls into one.

I completely agree with you!

Great list. Your last entry is the one I keep stumbling on. :)

Thanks! That's the next entry...I just don't know what it is yet:)

I think you misunderstood me. :) I seem to pick men that are emotionally unavailable. Your list looks pretty done. The more you add, the more difficult it would be to find her. Simplistically out, we should all just say we want someone who is happily willing and devoted to loving us the way we need to be. Hows that?

That's one fine list. Maybe some day I'll find a Woman who shares those points. Until then...I wait and keep searching.

Dont give up on your dreams! I'm still waiting.

DAW: You can't just wait....You must search for her. Try that. :)

I love your list,
What is your answer for #24 ???

Room for expansion :)

Thanks for the came from the heart and from experience :)

I couldn't have said it better myself!

Thank you!

Wow...long list.

True, it is long, but all of these things are important to the relationship I want to invite into my life.

I love it. You read my mind.

Thank you!

24. Appreciate and celebrate one another...

Good point!

Great list! :)

Thank you!