I Wish My Husband Was Deadyes thats an awful thing to say and if it really happened im sure i would feel differently but i really am at the end of my tether.
We have 3 kids. Both work, however he does jack s*** for me or them. In almost ten years, have never been taken for a meal, never bought the kids clothes, have had to repeatedly ask him for rent money (i cover all other bills) NEVER does any household chores (that is no exaggeration)
he recently brought a huge dog into our home without my agreement. It stinks, destroys everything and my husband now neglects to walk it. He has had moments where he has had no work so has been feeding the dog our food! This is a dog i depise almost as much as my husband. Ive asked him to get rid of it, he says no
He smokes pot, lies in bed every morning hes not working whilst im sorting out the children
In fact i wonder why on earth i ever got married to him. I find myself fantasising about him having a heart attack or something which i know is abnormal by i loathe him that much. He has never done anything for me and i am contstantly picking up after him, washing his clothes lending him money etc.
My mum and sister think im nuts to stay
Whats the easiest way to leave hm?
March 2013 Hes not dead but... we have seperated! Hurrah hurrah
Reflecting on this experience, I can see that I was almost as much to blame for allowing him to treat me like his mother. Its unbelievable to think that when it came to financial and practical responsibilities, he didnt believe he had any. His money was for himself and mine was to cover the bills and keep a roof over his head! Still not getting any help with the kids but am resigned to the fact that I will be a single mum for the time being and couldnt be happier :))