I Am Not Like Really Overweight, But...

I could still stand to lose some weight around my hips and lower stomach. When I lose 10 lbs I will feel great... when I lose 15 lbs I will feel even better. I could keep going to 20 or even 25 and not have to worry about looking too skinny, that is how much hip and butt I have going on. I will just be hoping along the way I don't lose my.... um...ahem...what I'm happy with, anyway....

My weight gathers around my butt and lower stomach, (ok and the chest area I am happy with)... :/ everywhere else I look average I guess. I have made my mind up though and I am mad at myself for not getting serious about this until now. Growing up, I was able to lose weight I wanted to and damn it all I am going to do this!

Up until now, the reason I have not felt serious about it is partly because I hate feeling judged about my body, or having someone want me for how I look. I want people to like and know me for who I am not just how tight and firm my body is (or will be) lol. I also was not serious because I had decided I looked ok and that was good enough, but even though it might be good enough, I finally accepted that it could be better!!

I appreciate all words of encouragement on this journey and really I just wanted to post this as a sort of certificate or way of helping my accountability. I have told people here as well as my close friends and family offline, and aside from telling everyone, I just have resolved within myself... that this is very important to me, and will be done.

I may not have given a d*a*m*n and thought I looked ok, but now I give more than a damn lol, and I am going to look better than ok. And truly, madly, deeply....I am doing it for ME, and not anyone else. For my own satisfaction, for my own continued health.... here I go.


CheshireGrinz CheshireGrinz
26-30, F
6 Responses Sep 18, 2012

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U are sooo rude I was just offering because u said you wanted to lose weight. Anyway you obviously have more issues than that good luck!

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