Hey everyone. Yes I want to lose weight and get healthier. But, I also want to lose weight because it makes me depressed. I used to be a size 5-7. Now I'm a size 14! But, I got this way since I have had 2 neck surgeries beginning in 2005. Since I have gained weight, my husband finds me unattracktive now and I haven't had sex in 1yr. It was a couple times a month, now nothing. And, the longer I go without, the less I want it with him. So, I want to leave him, live on my own, so I also want to lose the weight to look better and feel better about myself.