Positive ..

At work I often notice how the dynamics of a group can change when another person arrives .. 

One person can clearly seem to carry gloom and meaness whilst another carries smiles and laughter.

I would much prefer to be the second person ..

Orangetas Orangetas
51-55, F
12 Responses Mar 15, 2009

Thank you b .. yes it was

Lady tasmin<br><br />
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You already make a difference in people's lives with your postings here.<br><br />
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Thank you for the pics of Mombasa, was it. Diani beach, i think you wrote.<br><br />
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b

Hmm thank you Betty but I am am not always positive influence l .. I am never nasty but often lack confidence and assertiveness which can also affect others.<BR><BR>Myonis I remember a woman like that too .. everyone despised her and yet they still behaved like her feelings mattered above everyone elses. She was sarcastic and loved trying to belittle people .. she ended up having a huge nervous breakdown.

I worked with a woman whose daily moods, always volatile, determined the entire atmosphere of our office. We were always walking on eggshells in fear of setting off her next outburst or mood swing. It would be so wonderful if everyone could keep in mind that their mood in the office truly does matter. Your coworkers are lucky to have someone like you with that attitude.

That is always the problem .. we are stuck there for some reason and they know that .. <br />
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But you will soon be looking back at now and enjoying happy colleagues

Oh heck .. I have worked in places like that too :(

i am very lucky .. apart from one person all my work collegues are lovely people

ditto Princess xx

Give happiness take happiness,don't give sorrow or take sorrow.. ;o)

Hmmmm .......

Your co-workers are lucky to have you with them all day!

You are, Tasmin. You are.