Lonley After 17 Years Of Marrage

i have been married for 17 years we lived on a farm but my husband was a very insulting man sarcastic to me and there was know affection and never told me he loved me he allso was very selfish nothing i did would please him he would only put you down, i am a christian and i think this affected the marrage, he would tell me i was not a christian so nasty he threw a stick at me once when i was mowing the lawn because i went two close to the tree surounds, and it hit my nose and took skin off i have been pushed screamed a, i finaly sold off some of the land and got a house and moved out. and now i am going threw a devorce, i love the lord, but i need friends to talk to not about my marrage but some christian friends, well that my story, so if oyu have problems i am sure i will listen to you because apart from this story i have more and i feel i can help thankyou countryhome25.
countryhome25 countryhome25
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3 Responses Aug 5, 2010

I'm so sorry you had to endure all of that but I'm so glad to hear that you got out of that. That wasn't a marriage - that was something else! Thank God you took a stand and fought for yourself.<br />
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You can only go up from this point on and live your life as you should. I wish you so much happiness, love and luck wherever you go. I am not Christian. I am a Muslim, but I hope that doesn't mean we can't be friends. I look forward to seeing you around and wish you all the best. You are in my prayers!<br />
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With love - AM

Hi, good to see that you made a stand and looked after number 1 for once. I hope your life is better now and you can now start enjoying yourself. I bet your husband dos'nt know what hit him now you have left him. Good for you go and enjoy your life you have wasted to much time on the past.<br />
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Good luck<br />
Newfriend1

I am so sorry you had to go through that in your marriage. If you need anyone to talk to, do drop me a PM. I'm a Christian wife fighting my own battles but would love to lend you a listening ear or reading eye as the case may be.<br />
Take care and God give you strength in this time.