I am happily married and my husband works on oil rigs...he is gone for two weeks and then home for two weeks. When hes home everything is great...we go places do things hang out...we are friends as well...we have awesome sex he is all I have ever wanted in a man. Hes also a good father. Because he makes decent money I was able to retire from my job last may. The problem I have is that when he is gone...I am so bored soemtimes and get lonely...we video call every night when hes off work....but during the day he doesnt have much time to call and text me....it wasnt always like this when he was gone because the oil rig company he used to work with he had lots of opportunities to call or at least text me...and I got used to this...it helped make the day go by faster. Now he has taken a job with a different oil rig company and during the day i barely hear from him. I have used the holidays to keep me busy...I have two teenagers that are busy themselves with their own social life and I have cleaned and organized the house it seems over and over. I want someone to talk to or hang out with on ocassion when hes gone...I have been on sites to try and meet other women like myself...but i stopped doing that when people had other intentions than just friendship. Any suggestions on things to do?