Hi had a terrible experience a couple weeks ago I've decided to look into weight loss surgery and my best friend or so I thought for the last nearly twenty years got very angry with me and said she didn't want me to talk about it with her as it upsets her too much which hurt me a lot because it's happening to me not her but I said ok I'm not into forcing people to talk about things that make them upset but then a week later she emailed me canceling our plans for the weekend and just cut me out of her life just like that I'm so upset I can't understand why this happened she won't respond to me I'm devastated I cry everyday I don't know what to do I feel so sad
shellyd88 shellyd88
46-50, F
2 Responses Aug 18, 2014

SHellyD, It maybe that your friend likes you the way you are and doesn't want you to change. Or they may not want you to change because they think you make them look good because you are I guess over weight. I don't understand it either, but I do know e best thing for you to do is take care of yourself first, always take care of yourself.

Hello butch yes I know that's what I'm going to have to do what I think is best for me with or without her support and thank you for yours I sure appreciate it

She's probably scared for you it's still no reason for a friendship to end though.

I think your probably right I just can't imagine a situation where I would cut a friend off for trying to resolve an issue in their life even if I didn't agree with it when they would need support more than ever it really hurts it was completely unexpected

It's at times like this you need your friends the most.

Thank you ....geez I can't believe I'm still awake at this hour