Well this is going to be difficult but necessary. I am a bi-curious man who until recently was secure in his heterosexuality. I have discovered that I have an attraction to some men. It was a shock to me, after all I'm not a young man. I found myself thinking about kissing this guy that I had met. I found myself aroused by this thought. I'll admit at first it freaked me out, but as I came to accept it, somethings about myself made more sense. I have thought about having sex with a man before, but more from a scientific point of view, rather then from desire. I have a strong feminine side, I always have. Some people have thought I was gay anyways. That never bothered me. I have never had any problem with homosexuality. In fact I took it as a compliment in some cases, in others is was not intended to be nice anyways. I never thought much about it till the before mentioned incident. Now I find myself at a cross roads, I still have that question lurking over me. What am I? Am I bi-sexual? Well since I have never been with a man I can't really say I am. Am I homosexual? I know that's not true because I love women way too much. I guess that leaves me as bi-curious. OK to the point of joining this group. I'm not looking for sex, a relationship, but I am looking for friends. I have had gay friends before in the past and have enjoy their company. I lived with a friend of mine who was gay and I never thought much about it. He was an old friend who was kind enough to help me out in a time of need. So, here I am now asking for someone who would like to help out a fellow man, who's sexuality is in question. I could use a friend right now who has gone though this before. I would like to know how you handled it, the way you felt, ect... I would be grateful for the help.