My husband of 10 years has just told me he likes to wear my clothes. I love him so much but am trying to get my head around this.
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7 Responses Oct 4, 2015

iam female and iam called lisa. I went through the same thoughts and feelings when I first found out, after I had freaked and through my toys out of the pram and calmed down and we talked, it dawned on me that this man was and still is the same man I fell in love with and married, I remembered the vows, better for worse, but its not that bad, he has his own set of clothes now and life is fun and exiteing, its brought a whole new dimension to our marriage, what ever you do count to 10 first and I think youl enjoy the results

Glad you realize that he is still the same man, no matter the clothes he wears.

Hi, I've just rejoined EP after a break!
My husband is a straight CD. I've known and supported him for a long time now. He told me before we married. It's a lot for many women to take in, some never accept it. Once I agreed he was very bashful about wearing femme attire In front of me. Keen to make him happy now that he'd opened up to me I began by leaving a long nightdress and knickers on his side of the bed. He'd put them on in the dark, and slip them off in the morning while I was out of the room.
We've come a long way since then!
Happy to answer any questions.
Jo. X
PS, I think I'll set our journey down as a story.........

Hello okthatsnew. By conservative traditional standards this is enough to warrant a divorce. Is that what you want? You owe it to yourself to be honest with yourself. It must have come as a bit of a shock if you had no clue. Do you really love him? This is a once in a lifetime OPPORTUNITY to supercharge your sex life. Is that what you want? The choice is yours. You can run FROM IT or you can run WITH IT. If my GF admitted a secret fetish to me I think I know whatI would do! Not everyone can live with the truth about their partners sex life. Then again not everyone finds out. Why do you think your husband told you this?

To me clothing that I feel most comfortable in, but I have my own clothes I would never wear my wife's clothes.

I have a female side and i find that wear female clothes take us into another aspect and take a lot of stress off our shoulders .This is great for it cuts the arguments , makes it better on blood pressure as well as helping him understand you as a woman .I know a couple that one day every month they become(as close as possible )their partner ,all chores and responsabilties (yes they go all out).They understand each other better than any other couple i know .Please open your mind and try to see or even give it a try ,you won't regret it.

I wear skirts quite a lot of the time, and my wife is fine with it . I don't go for the whole "looking female" thing at all, I just like the same choices as women enjoy in what I wear. In summer, we often go out with our dogs to the beach,and I often wear a short skirt then, but I wouldn't for example expect to meet other friends say in a restaurant, or cinema wearing one, as I don't think that would be appropriate. However, in the confines of your own home, there really is no reason to be worried about your husband wanting to wear your clothes, in fact it is something you could both have some fun with !
At the end of the day it is only some clothes, it doesn't involve another person, or any of the somewhat strange activities that many people get up to ! Just talk to him about it, and see what you can both enjoy from it ! Believe me, he will have had this , what to him is a great worry as to whether it would affect his relationship with you, on his mind for years, so just listen to what he has to say, it will be an enormous relief to him to talk with you about this. It will have been with him for a very long time, so please just have a non judgemental conversation with him, it really is quite a lot of fun for both of you, and will not change the person you married at all !

then don't fight it talk to him I am there. you can have a great relationship or you argue about it forever and that's no good just enjoy each other