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I Want To Recover Intimacy

Intimacy Left Me On February 13 2003

By: TheWomanWhoDid
Written on January 29th, 2013
Almost ten years since I've touched a lover who cared.
I had sex for ten days in late 2008....but I was a fool in unrequited love.
By: TheWomanWhoDid
Age: 31-35 , Female
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  • Scarcollection
    Scarcollection

    I wish we could trade. :-) You deserve the good feelings and I deserve the safety.

    Jan 29
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    • TheWomanWhoDid
      TheWomanWhoDid

      *hugs* Involuntary celibacy is no fun, love. I guess if you choose to be celibate, you feel calm.

      Jan 29
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    • Scarcollection
      Scarcollection

      That's why you deserve the good feelings. It's involuntary celibacy, that's not a good feeling (to you), so you deserve a good feeling instead.

      Celibacy as a choice, I don't know... I think the hardcore religious people have a hard time with it too. ;-)
      Except for Catholic priests, as long as they have little boys around.

      Jan 29
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    • SunniL
      SunniL

      You both deserve good feelings and safety!

      Jan 29
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  • DenteAvvelenato
    DenteAvvelenato

    Wow. I'm speechless.

    Jan 29
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    • TheWomanWhoDid
      TheWomanWhoDid

      I used to be as well... Now I'm speaking out.

      Jan 29
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    • DenteAvvelenato
      DenteAvvelenato

      Do you want intimacy ? I'm glad you are using your voice !

      Jan 29
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    • TheWomanWhoDid
      TheWomanWhoDid

      I need it, but not on a sexual level just yet. I'd just love to connect again.

      Jan 29
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    • DenteAvvelenato
      DenteAvvelenato

      Intimacy is often mistaken as being purely sexual refreshing to see people talking about it in all it's forms. Seems allowing yourself to speak about it and recognize your need for it are positive steps forward !

      Jan 29
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  • SunniL
    SunniL

    :( Awww
    You will recover it!
    That moment when you least expect it, I HOPE! And at that moment when you need it the most!

    Jan 29
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    • TheWomanWhoDid
      TheWomanWhoDid

      Friendship does wonders on one level, at least.

      Jan 29
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    • SunniL
      SunniL

      That is true.

      Jan 29
      1 like