I am not sure what way i am going with this , every turn something ugly. I just wnt to say thanks to those of you who let me vent , cry and be angry . I am not out of the woods , but i am trying! We can't bury him yet it is being investigated , we are going through the motions on everything else . I have to pull it together for my granddaughter she is 2 today and you all have helped . THANK YOU!