I Want One Some One Special

I am sure many of us are not satisfied with the our partners...by this i  don't mean that to imply sexual propensity or meeting expectations....it is something different which binds us always...i always has that feeling..i want someone special with whom i can share everything without any hesitation and fear...some are fortunate to get those as partners...i was really searching some platform where i can just share everything...i think i got one today...i call all those who really are in search of someone very special...

For me marriage has been a painful ordeal..My partner is not like me...i could not find that special being in her...i realized the same after four years of my relationship with her...sex does bring u close but not that close...i have always a sort of fear or hesitation in my mind to share everything with her...i am not free....i really need some one very special  with whom i am free and relaxed......is it wrong to look  for someone special? Will i really get some one that reliable and trustworthy.?... 

mysteriousman mysteriousman
36-40, M
6 Responses Mar 15, 2010

me too searching a person to give me shoulder bcoz no one there is to share wat i am feeling now no one there to cry when i am fedup...searching hard i dont know when i am going to find such a person............ waiting for u dear come soon..........

in search of an emotional connection...that's what makes me feel whole....

i appreciate your comments and completely agree with you.I am married and is trying my best to survive in my marriage.But my concern here is : is the one you are married is the special someone?<br />
A big no....i feel coz.You must be lucky to get the one you feel special as your wife/husband.True Love is love without conditions.For ex: Mothers love is true love.People hate criminals but mother of that person who is criminal loves him unconditionally ignoring all his crimes.Is it not?<br />
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I feel strongly that there are people who are married but not to someone specials coz of N number of reasons...may they never met..may be they leave in different countries etc...Hence i dont feel finding you special someone is unethical...but yes on the other hand it is alos true that we cant ditch the one married for the special someone but atleast you can share your thoughts .True love is above materialism and the special someone will accept you as you are (without conditions).Both of them can be friends...i think you will appreciate ...

Life isn't always what we hope it to be. I guess I don't remember if you are still married or not. If you are still married then looking for the very someone special is in my opinion a bad thing. If you are separated and working on divorce or divorced then no looking for the very special someone is not a bad thing at all. I wish you best wishes as you go down life's road - just remember we can't always avoid the potholes or mountains to climb.

Thats true of u...i think we all who could not do good in our married lives because of so many reasons, get desperate to look for someone very special....its our fate whether we get one!<br />
And moreover,it is not bad to hope for a positive change although we know that it is we who decide what is positive or negative!.....things are always neutral ...our perception makes us feel it positive....great philosophy isn't it!

Ah, it's always worth looking for - you have to decide how badly you want it :)