I Want to Share My Wife With Another Man
I chose Joe to seduce my wife Gwendolyn.
Out of all the guys who responded to my ad, with whom I discussed my proposition, who told me what they would do with her, how they would approach and win her over, get into her pants, I went with Joe.
He was a well-spoken, intelligent, affluent, attractive, and horny businessman, and he liked my suggestion and most importantly he found Gwendolyn to be a piece of *** more than worth the pursuit. As she definitely is!
So why was I approaching the whole thing in a surreptitious manner? This is why.
I really want to see my beautiful Gwendolyn in the arms of another lover. I'd love for it to be a woman, but a man is a much more likely proposition. I want to see her kissing him, stripping off her clothes for him, slurping on his hard ****, and moaning in pleasure as he rams his **** in and out of her.
I want to watch this. But if not, I'd lover to know it is happening. I'd very much prefer we did it together, that she enjoyed ******* him and having me watch as much as I enjoyed watching.
And I think, given the right approach, she would totally get into it, absolutely love it.
So it isn't that I'm wanting her to do anything SHE doesn't want to. Far from it.
One thing I know though: the "right approach" requires that the thing be her idea, or that she feel it is her idea. Even if the idea comes from somewhere else, a webpage, a book, a video. Or from someone else, a friend, a client, someone like Joe. The important thing is that it is not MY idea.
She knows I am more sexually adventurous than she is left to herself. The adventures I've been able to lead her into, she has loved and jumped into wholeheartedly. But she hates to be pushed. And given her generally dominant spirit, when I ask her to take this or that step, she perceives it as pushing.
When she asks me to do this or that, in matters sexual or otherwise, she usually gets her way. And it doesn't matter to her if the pushing is in the other direction. That's just the way she is.
So I thought, what we need is a catalyst outside the system (the two of us) to make some latent action happen. I wanted Joe to be a catalyst.
So here is the plan. Joe was from out of town, but came to town often for business. He does often get massages when he is here. So why not call Gwendolyn for that massage. At the very least, he would have an excellent massage from a beautiful lady. That's a win for him right there.
Now I know that guys flirt with her, come on to her, get hard under the sheet, look lustfully at her face, her breasts, her butt. And I like that. I just never hear about it. So second level, he flirts, comes on to her, makes a pass at her, propositions her, and Joe can tell me every detail of her reaction.
If she is offended, that tells me something. If she is flattered but give him a flat no, that also tells me something, a couple of things: first that she is at least a little responsive to a guy's attention, and that she is loyal to me. Both good.
If she receives his flirtation, and flirts back, or somehow at least discusses the suggestion with him, this is a step in the right direction. She just needs more work, more time.
If she ***** him, that's a win.
Only thing, this really needs to be done slowly, gradually, incrementally. First visit, almost certainly no outright proposition. Just build rapport, establish a positive client relationship, show at most hints of appreciation for her beauty, her as a woman and not simply a therapy provider.
A second visit, now they're familiar with each other, at ease, defenses down. Or hers anyway. This is time for some compliments, on her massage but also on her. He thought about her as he was planning his trip, wanted to make sure he made time to see her.
On a third time, I think, he could make a confession of attraction. He could invite her for a drink afterward, perhaps. Or if he sensed there was some return of attraction, he could request that the massage be done undraped. If she says yes to this, that's a signal for both of them, that they are taking a step, only a step toward increased intimacy.
From this point, the seduction proper could begin. I was counting on Joe's masculine predatory instincts and skills to take over from there.
What actually happened was different from this, but also interesting.
I have to say Joe was not totally satisfactory as a seducer candidate.
As I said, Gwendolyn hates to be pushed. And the approach needed to be subtle, gradual--work around her mental roadblocks. But Joe, well, he just came on too strong.
Their first massage, he came on to her. He asked her out on a date. She told him "not without my husband." At that point he told her about how he enjoys seeing his wife with another man, having sex even, with another man. He told her all men like this. That her husband (me) would enjoy it.
She did not yield to his advances. Of course not, they were too brusque, too coarse. What she did do was agree to his request that she ask ME whether that was true, that I too enjoyed the idea of seeing her **** another man.
Well, she did ask (sort of) and maybe I should just have said yes. But the question put me in a position. The whole idea was that it kept the whole thing from being my idea. This put the ball completely back in my court.
It did have some positive consequences, however: we at least broached a subject we never had before: a husband enjoying seeing his wife with another man. And on the one hand, at least at this point, the idea was a big NO for her. On the other hand, she was super, super horny for weeks afterward. So clearly, if she was not ready to do it, the fantasy turned her on. That was a plus.
But even after that first false step, he could have played it through to a nice outcome. She actually was open to his invitation of going out, the three of us. She had said "not without my husband." That could seque perfectly into a "double date." It would make for a peculiar social situation, three on a date. Essentially, and he and I could emphasize this verbally, she would be on a date with both of us.
"Date" has a nice sound to it. More than just out for dinner, and dancing with a friend, who just happens to be stag that night. If it was established as a date with both of us: this means (a) it sets a precedent: now she and Joe have a dating relationship, (b) it sets another precedent: at a comfortably platonic level (for now) she will have "had two men." (c) Joe would be quite free--especially with me there-- to speak to her in dating terms, romantic terms, even erotic terms. And if we went dancing after dinner, convention allow this man to engage in courtship ritual--dancing one on one--with my wife. (d) I cannot imagine that at the very least after a night of food, wine, dancing, flirting and charm, Gwendolyn would to have accepted a goodnight kiss from Joe. And that would be a goal.
From there things could build. Another visit, another date.
A variation of this I particularly like: Gwendolyn and Joe would be on a date, and I would merely be their chaperon. This would be an amazing set up, Gwendolyn crossing the line of going out on a date with another man, even if I was present. Future dates? Maybe the chaperon wouldn't be necessary. Or maybe the chaperon would make no objection if the kissing became a bit hot, if the goodnight turned into a come in for a moment.
As it is, he came back into town a second time, and pushed the thing. He propositioned her. And that pushing shut the whole thing down. She not only refused him, she asked that he not call her for massage again.
So overall, an interesting experiment. Far from wholly satisfactory, but we experienced some things, learned some things, and took a tiny step in the right direction.
Out of all the guys who responded to my ad, with whom I discussed my proposition, who told me what they would do with her, how they would approach and win her over, get into her pants, I went with Joe.
He was a well-spoken, intelligent, affluent, attractive, and horny businessman, and he liked my suggestion and most importantly he found Gwendolyn to be a piece of *** more than worth the pursuit. As she definitely is!
So why was I approaching the whole thing in a surreptitious manner? This is why.
I really want to see my beautiful Gwendolyn in the arms of another lover. I'd love for it to be a woman, but a man is a much more likely proposition. I want to see her kissing him, stripping off her clothes for him, slurping on his hard ****, and moaning in pleasure as he rams his **** in and out of her.
I want to watch this. But if not, I'd lover to know it is happening. I'd very much prefer we did it together, that she enjoyed ******* him and having me watch as much as I enjoyed watching.
And I think, given the right approach, she would totally get into it, absolutely love it.
So it isn't that I'm wanting her to do anything SHE doesn't want to. Far from it.
One thing I know though: the "right approach" requires that the thing be her idea, or that she feel it is her idea. Even if the idea comes from somewhere else, a webpage, a book, a video. Or from someone else, a friend, a client, someone like Joe. The important thing is that it is not MY idea.
She knows I am more sexually adventurous than she is left to herself. The adventures I've been able to lead her into, she has loved and jumped into wholeheartedly. But she hates to be pushed. And given her generally dominant spirit, when I ask her to take this or that step, she perceives it as pushing.
When she asks me to do this or that, in matters sexual or otherwise, she usually gets her way. And it doesn't matter to her if the pushing is in the other direction. That's just the way she is.
So I thought, what we need is a catalyst outside the system (the two of us) to make some latent action happen. I wanted Joe to be a catalyst.
So here is the plan. Joe was from out of town, but came to town often for business. He does often get massages when he is here. So why not call Gwendolyn for that massage. At the very least, he would have an excellent massage from a beautiful lady. That's a win for him right there.
Now I know that guys flirt with her, come on to her, get hard under the sheet, look lustfully at her face, her breasts, her butt. And I like that. I just never hear about it. So second level, he flirts, comes on to her, makes a pass at her, propositions her, and Joe can tell me every detail of her reaction.
If she is offended, that tells me something. If she is flattered but give him a flat no, that also tells me something, a couple of things: first that she is at least a little responsive to a guy's attention, and that she is loyal to me. Both good.
If she receives his flirtation, and flirts back, or somehow at least discusses the suggestion with him, this is a step in the right direction. She just needs more work, more time.
If she ***** him, that's a win.
Only thing, this really needs to be done slowly, gradually, incrementally. First visit, almost certainly no outright proposition. Just build rapport, establish a positive client relationship, show at most hints of appreciation for her beauty, her as a woman and not simply a therapy provider.
A second visit, now they're familiar with each other, at ease, defenses down. Or hers anyway. This is time for some compliments, on her massage but also on her. He thought about her as he was planning his trip, wanted to make sure he made time to see her.
On a third time, I think, he could make a confession of attraction. He could invite her for a drink afterward, perhaps. Or if he sensed there was some return of attraction, he could request that the massage be done undraped. If she says yes to this, that's a signal for both of them, that they are taking a step, only a step toward increased intimacy.
From this point, the seduction proper could begin. I was counting on Joe's masculine predatory instincts and skills to take over from there.
What actually happened was different from this, but also interesting.
I have to say Joe was not totally satisfactory as a seducer candidate.
As I said, Gwendolyn hates to be pushed. And the approach needed to be subtle, gradual--work around her mental roadblocks. But Joe, well, he just came on too strong.
Their first massage, he came on to her. He asked her out on a date. She told him "not without my husband." At that point he told her about how he enjoys seeing his wife with another man, having sex even, with another man. He told her all men like this. That her husband (me) would enjoy it.
She did not yield to his advances. Of course not, they were too brusque, too coarse. What she did do was agree to his request that she ask ME whether that was true, that I too enjoyed the idea of seeing her **** another man.
Well, she did ask (sort of) and maybe I should just have said yes. But the question put me in a position. The whole idea was that it kept the whole thing from being my idea. This put the ball completely back in my court.
It did have some positive consequences, however: we at least broached a subject we never had before: a husband enjoying seeing his wife with another man. And on the one hand, at least at this point, the idea was a big NO for her. On the other hand, she was super, super horny for weeks afterward. So clearly, if she was not ready to do it, the fantasy turned her on. That was a plus.
But even after that first false step, he could have played it through to a nice outcome. She actually was open to his invitation of going out, the three of us. She had said "not without my husband." That could seque perfectly into a "double date." It would make for a peculiar social situation, three on a date. Essentially, and he and I could emphasize this verbally, she would be on a date with both of us.
"Date" has a nice sound to it. More than just out for dinner, and dancing with a friend, who just happens to be stag that night. If it was established as a date with both of us: this means (a) it sets a precedent: now she and Joe have a dating relationship, (b) it sets another precedent: at a comfortably platonic level (for now) she will have "had two men." (c) Joe would be quite free--especially with me there-- to speak to her in dating terms, romantic terms, even erotic terms. And if we went dancing after dinner, convention allow this man to engage in courtship ritual--dancing one on one--with my wife. (d) I cannot imagine that at the very least after a night of food, wine, dancing, flirting and charm, Gwendolyn would to have accepted a goodnight kiss from Joe. And that would be a goal.
From there things could build. Another visit, another date.
A variation of this I particularly like: Gwendolyn and Joe would be on a date, and I would merely be their chaperon. This would be an amazing set up, Gwendolyn crossing the line of going out on a date with another man, even if I was present. Future dates? Maybe the chaperon wouldn't be necessary. Or maybe the chaperon would make no ob
As it is, he came back into town a second time, and pushed the thing. He propositioned her. And that pushing shut the whole thing down. She not only refused him, she asked that he not call her for massage again.
So overall, an interesting experiment. Far from wholly satisfactory, but we experienced some things, learned some things, and took a tiny step in the right direction.
By:
iQuestor
Age:
51-55
,
Male
